LOVE? How important? Still there?
Feb 12, 2017 21:29:33 GMT -5
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Post by baza on Feb 12, 2017 21:29:33 GMT -5
FWIW Sister @smartkat, I see nothing unusual about your feelings for Mr SmartKat.
There are times when Ms enna and I are discussing things and Mr enna's name (or Mrs baz's name) will come up in conversation along with a wistful observation that those respective relationships didn't work out.
This in no way diminishes or disrespects our (me and Ms enna's) relationship.
That's here and now and real and live. There is no 'theory' to it at all.
Hell, truth be told I sometimes go back in time to my first ever adult relationship with the alluring Irene, and think, pity that didn't work out - and that was over 32 years ago !!!!
Cut yourself a bit of slack.
If you have given up your heart to someone, there's always going to be a little place in there they still occupy, even years later.
I see that as being pretty normal.
There are times when Ms enna and I are discussing things and Mr enna's name (or Mrs baz's name) will come up in conversation along with a wistful observation that those respective relationships didn't work out.
This in no way diminishes or disrespects our (me and Ms enna's) relationship.
That's here and now and real and live. There is no 'theory' to it at all.
Hell, truth be told I sometimes go back in time to my first ever adult relationship with the alluring Irene, and think, pity that didn't work out - and that was over 32 years ago !!!!
Cut yourself a bit of slack.
If you have given up your heart to someone, there's always going to be a little place in there they still occupy, even years later.
I see that as being pretty normal.
