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Post by bballgirl on Feb 4, 2017 13:24:48 GMT -5
I'm out of my SM. Been living on my own for over a year now. I still haven't found love and I'm not sure if I ever will but I have found sex and a type of connection. I can say that I'm addicted to this place too. It's in my nature to want to help people, I'm an ESFJ - the helper. So I feel a need to stay in this group despite not being in a SM anymore. I also think I give good firm advice but in a gentle way, it would never be my intention to make someone feel bad. Sometimes I see my ex, and I get sad about how things turned out. Sometimes I still wish things could have been different but I know he didn't want me. So this place helps to reinforce for me why I left and that I made the right decision for me. This place still helps me too. Love you girl!! You have absolutely helped me and continue to do so!! Love you too honey!! |
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Post by lwoetin on Feb 4, 2017 14:01:49 GMT -5
I like going on this forum because members are more tolerant and open to different viewpoints. And people are friendlier. And sexier. I was reading on another forum (very large membership) and was shocked how cruel a group can collectively be to a person who cheated on her refuser husband. There was almost a 100 responses and a majority of posters were those who got cheated on and making themselves feel better by attacking the 'slut', as they like to refer to her. The mods cringe but allow that shit. There are other subset of members on other threads who are very good, but when a crazy mob shows up, RUN!
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Post by solodriver on Feb 4, 2017 14:22:52 GMT -5
I'm out of my SM. Been living on my own for over a year now. I still haven't found love and I'm not sure if I ever will but I have found sex and a type of connection. I can say that I'm addicted to this place too. It's in my nature to want to help people, I'm an ESFJ - the helper. So I feel a need to stay in this group despite not being in a SM anymore. I also think I give good firm advice but in a gentle way, it would never be my intention to make someone feel bad. Sometimes I see my ex, and I get sad about how things turned out. Sometimes I still wish things could have been different but I know he didn't want me. So this place helps to reinforce for me why I left and that I made the right decision for me. This place still helps me too. bballgirl, you are wanted and welcomed here. Your experiences and encouragements are very much appreciated by myself and others. You are always needed and welcomed here!
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Post by solodriver on Feb 4, 2017 14:28:51 GMT -5
My name is Solo Driver and I'm addicted to sex. (Sadly it's been 16 years since my last experience).
I love the way it makes me feel, I love the way I can help someone else feel, I love the connection it makes to another person, and I love to have it as often as I can.
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Post by bballgirl on Feb 4, 2017 14:29:21 GMT -5
I'm out of my SM. Been living on my own for over a year now. I still haven't found love and I'm not sure if I ever will but I have found sex and a type of connection. I can say that I'm addicted to this place too. It's in my nature to want to help people, I'm an ESFJ - the helper. So I feel a need to stay in this group despite not being in a SM anymore. I also think I give good firm advice but in a gentle way, it would never be my intention to make someone feel bad. Sometimes I see my ex, and I get sad about how things turned out. Sometimes I still wish things could have been different but I know he didn't want me. So this place helps to reinforce for me why I left and that I made the right decision for me. This place still helps me too. bballgirl, you are wanted and welcomed here. Your experiences and encouragements are very much appreciated by myself and others. You are always needed and welcomed here!
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Post by bballgirl on Feb 4, 2017 14:30:17 GMT -5
My name is Solo Driver and I'm addicted to sex. (Sadly it's been 16 years since my last experience).
I love the way it makes me feel, I love the way I can help someone else feel, I love the connection it makes to another person, and I love to have it as often as I can.
I might be an addict too! Lol |
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Post by kiltedpadre on Feb 4, 2017 15:26:43 GMT -5
I certainly like to see that there are new things to go over when I check in throughout the day. At the same time, I appreciate when there are times without much new (work third shift at times) because it gives me a chance to reread and digest.
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Post by solodriver on Feb 4, 2017 15:59:23 GMT -5
My name is Solo Driver and I'm addicted to sex. (Sadly it's been 16 years since my last experience).
I love the way it makes me feel, I love the way I can help someone else feel, I love the connection it makes to another person, and I love to have it as often as I can.
This post is true, but more importantly, I hoped to have brightened someone's day with it as well!  |
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Post by GeekGoddess on Feb 4, 2017 16:34:21 GMT -5
I like it when it's quiet in here sometimes. I can get a bit overwhelmed when there is a lot of new stuff. I always want to read everything and speak wise words. But I never have the time to read everything, and I don't often have wisdom when I do read something. So sometimes this place makes me feel a bit shitty. Like I'm failing at being a good member. I do feel all the pain here though. Deeply. I always wish I had more time. Like if this place was my job I'd be all over it arranging people's exits for them and setting up their new lives for them... it's funny, i know I'd excel at doing that for other people... but still haven't done it for myself have I?!!!!! I think that's called "codependent" isn't it? (partly joking but partly something to look at, too) |
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Post by thebaffledking on Feb 4, 2017 19:51:21 GMT -5
My name is Solo Driver and I'm addicted to sex. (Sadly it's been 16 years since my last experience).
I love the way it makes me feel, I love the way I can help someone else feel, I love the connection it makes to another person, and I love to have it as often as I can.
I might be an addict too! Lol I am most definitely a sex addict, but I am also fiercely faithful and loyal and totally one-woman. You can probably see the problems that my SM has brought me. No wonder my brain and heart feel shattered. Sha-doo-bay..........shattered. |
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 5, 2017 3:42:36 GMT -5
I like it when it's quiet in here sometimes. I can get a bit overwhelmed when there is a lot of new stuff. I always want to read everything and speak wise words. But I never have the time to read everything, and I don't often have wisdom when I do read something. So sometimes this place makes me feel a bit shitty. Like I'm failing at being a good member. I do feel all the pain here though. Deeply. I always wish I had more time. Like if this place was my job I'd be all over it arranging people's exits for them and setting up their new lives for them... it's funny, i know I'd excel at doing that for other people... but still haven't done it for myself have I?!!!!! I think that's called "codependent" isn't it? (partly joking but partly something to look at, too) Give that girl a prize! Yep GG... that's me! Xx |
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Post by Admin on Feb 5, 2017 11:10:18 GMT -5
.......addicted to the wisdom and advice and the many many stories shared here. When I log on and see no one's updated any threads in hours, I feel a kind of sadness   I like this place.......I like it a lot. I'm so glad that I set it up -- "turned on the lights", as it were -- but it is the character of our members that gives this place its heart and soul. From the bottom of my heart: I thank every one here for making this forum a true community. |
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 5, 2017 11:13:42 GMT -5
.......addicted to the wisdom and advice and the many many stories shared here. When I log on and see no one's updated any threads in hours, I feel a kind of sadness I like this place.......I like it a lot. I'm so glad that I set it up -- "turned on the lights", as it were -- but it is the character of our members that gives this place its heart and soul. From the bottom of my heart: I thank every one here for making this forum a true community. I'm glad you did too. Yay for all of us. We rock! |
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Post by tamara68 on Feb 5, 2017 11:26:00 GMT -5
.......addicted to the wisdom and advice and the many many stories shared here. When I log on and see no one's updated any threads in hours, I feel a kind of sadness I like this place.......I like it a lot. I'm so glad that I set it up -- "turned on the lights", as it were -- but it is the character of our members that gives this place its heart and soul. From the bottom of my heart: I thank every one here for making this forum a true community. Thank you very much for setting it up! It is so good to be here. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 6, 2017 16:39:13 GMT -5
How can you be addicted to sex if you almost never get any?
Addicted to this forum, though....yes, it's addictive. I'm still here.
The main reason is because I think of most of the people here as friends, and I want to keep up with what's happening to everybody.
Also, because - even though I'm out - my love life is still a fucked up mess. I feel I am neither better off nor worse off, for having left - it's a draw.
I haven't been here in a few days, and every so often, life off the Internet gets busy for me. My job has gotten busier; people IRL need my attention, etc.
But, I always come back.
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