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Post by greatcoastal on Dec 13, 2016 10:01:35 GMT -5
Another FREAK OUT further down on that list is this. She would have multiple orgasms, and ask me to keep touching her! She enjoyed that part! Her whole body would shake.
Then it's done. Another year goes by, then another. (crickets chirping)
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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2016 10:03:13 GMT -5
Arh, the public face. From my own experience and what others have said there seem to be a trait here, our spouses work so hard to show the world that they loving, intimate and attentive people. That tells me they have some comprehension what they are doing is wrong if they have to hide it? Good observation. My STBX knew exactly what he was doing. Public vs personal persona. But the number one thing that freaked me out and devastated me at the same time. Finding a 'Fleshlight' masturbatory toy hidden in the basement. What more is there to say? Maybe he practiced French kissing on it .... have I just freaked you out more Nancy 😳 |
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Post by nancyb on Dec 13, 2016 10:35:44 GMT -5
Good observation. My STBX knew exactly what he was doing. Public vs personal persona. But the number one thing that freaked me out and devastated me at the same time. Finding a 'Fleshlight' masturbatory toy hidden in the basement. What more is there to say? Maybe he practiced French kissing on it .... have I just freaked you out more Nancy 😳 LMAO...no I'm not freaked out. I don't care anymore what he did with it. His excuse when confronted was just as pathetic. He said that he 'bought it to jazz up our sex life.' WTF? |
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Post by ggold on Dec 13, 2016 10:45:24 GMT -5
I'm 45 I literally started over. What scared me more was being 60 or 70 and saying I should have left when I was in my 40's. Yes!! This!! My parents separated when they were either in their late 50's/early 60s!! I refuse to allow this to go on that long. They also have been my motivation. My dad had a few years of some happiness but his health declined and he passed away soon after. Life is too damn short!! |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 13, 2016 11:20:28 GMT -5
it is like my future has been taken away. I might live the rest of my life sexless. That scares the hell out of me. I am a survivor and can adapt to life, but I never saw this coming and am at a loss to overcome it.
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Post by lyn on Dec 13, 2016 11:48:19 GMT -5
My H also acts like our life together is fucking fantastic. "We" have plans made, tickets bought etc" through 2017. None of it my planning as I know "we" won't be doing jack together this time next year.
He leaves me a note before he goes to work EVERY DAY. Not just a note, a love note I guess. He likes to grab on to my waist and pull me towards him in public and private. He manhandles me, yet, skips off to "his" side of the house each night to watch sportcenter maybe fuck a football if that were possible, then go to sleep in what is supposed to be my mom's room when she visits.
Wait a sec, maybe I'm not in a sm, I just realized I get mind-fucked everyday.
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Post by lyn on Dec 13, 2016 11:52:30 GMT -5
And one more thing... My STBX would always pride himself that a 'morning' erection was a sign that everything was working ?? What a F-ing asshole. Just so sick and twisted I don't know what to say. You deserve sooooo much better! |
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Post by csl on Dec 13, 2016 11:53:09 GMT -5
And one more thing... My STBX would always pride himself that a 'morning' erection was a sign that everything was working ?? "And what do you plan on doing with that fully working dick?" "Just because you have a dick doesn't mean you have to be one." Apropos of nothing, I just love a neat turn of phrase. Carry on.... |
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Post by csl on Dec 13, 2016 11:56:48 GMT -5
Arh, the public face. From my own experience and what others have said there seem to be a trait here, our spouses work so hard to show the world that they loving, intimate and attentive people. That tells me they have some comprehension what they are doing is wrong if they have to hide it? Good observation. My STBX knew exactly what he was doing. Public vs personal persona. But the number one thing that freaked me out and devastated me at the same time. Finding a 'Fleshlight' masturbatory toy hidden in the basement. What more is there to say? Oh Hayel no! That should have gone up in flames on the Webber grill on the front lawn during rush hour! After having called the family together for a public hanging. (Okay, maybe I over-react sometimes. Gotta cut back to one cup in the morning.) |
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Post by bballgirl on Dec 13, 2016 12:06:36 GMT -5
Good observation. My STBX knew exactly what he was doing. Public vs personal persona. But the number one thing that freaked me out and devastated me at the same time. Finding a 'Fleshlight' masturbatory toy hidden in the basement. What more is there to say? Oh Hayel no! That should have gone up in flames on the Webber grill on the front lawn during rush hour! After having called the family together for a public hanging. (Okay, maybe I over-react sometimes. Gotta cut back to one cup in the morning.) Juice some jalapeño peppers and rub the inside of it with the juice. Then talk about sexual things but very subtle, go to sleep early so he can get down to the basement. I say put his dick up in flames! |
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Post by dancingbear70 on Dec 13, 2016 12:42:55 GMT -5
Juice some jalapeño peppers and rub the inside of it with the juice. Then talk about sexual things but very subtle, go to sleep early so he can get down to the basement. I say put his dick up in flames! Do not get on bballgirl's bad side! Welp! |
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Post by wewbwb on Dec 13, 2016 13:16:42 GMT -5
Beachguy: My STBX is a selfish prick period. Literally true. |
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Post by Chatter Fox on Dec 13, 2016 13:47:54 GMT -5
He manhandles me, yet, skips off to "his" side of the house each night to watch sportcenter maybe fuck a football if that were possible Lmfao! I almost spit out my coffee when I read that! |
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Post by cagedtiger on Dec 13, 2016 14:00:27 GMT -5
How much her actions don't match up with her words, especially her words in counseling out in public settings, and how much she doesn't seem to realize she's doing it.
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Post by beachguy on Dec 13, 2016 14:12:36 GMT -5
My H also acts like our life together is fucking fantastic. "We" have plans made, tickets bought etc" through 2017. None of it my planning as I know "we" won't be doing jack together this time next year. He leaves me a note before he goes to work EVERY DAY. Not just a note, a love note I guess. He likes to grab on to my waist and pull me towards him in public and private. He manhandles me, yet, skips off to "his" side of the house each night to watch sportcenter maybe fuck a football if that were possible, then go to sleep in what is supposed to be my mom's room when she visits. Wait a sec, maybe I'm not in a sm, I just realized I get mind-fucked everyday. There's money in this. Fleshlights shaped like footballs. Still time for Christmas delivery... |
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