Just sat and cried this afternoon a bit

bballgirl Senior Members Posts: 3,462	Just sat and cried this afternoon a bit Oct 22, 2016 14:47:03 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bballgirl on Oct 22, 2016 14:47:03 GMT -5 Happy Birthday!! Do something nice for yourself today! I hope it's a great day!!

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Just sat and cried this afternoon a bit Feb 25, 2017 17:08:18 GMT -5

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Oct 20, 2016 14:53:33 GMT -5 ggold said:

Having a pity party. Some days are better than others.

I feel very empty, scattered, disconnected.

I think my birthday coming up on Saturday is bringing up feelings that another year has gone by and nothing has changed because I have not done anything about it. I'm so pissed off at myself for being a coward.

It's one of those days. :-(

So its now 4 months later ggold. Any changes? Whatever did happen on your birthday?

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Just sat and cried this afternoon a bit Feb 25, 2017 18:25:21 GMT -5 ggold likes this

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Post by McRoomMate on Feb 25, 2017 18:25:21 GMT -5

@ggold My sympathies and hugs sent your way.

You know any step even if "little baby step" is good.

Yes I am preparing my Exit - I felt desperate a few week-ends ago. I did not know where to start - so over whelming. Well here were my "little baby steps"

I cleaned out my closet and drawers of about 6 boxes of old clothes and junk of garbage bags / donations to charity.

I felt totally overwhelmed and depressed and just ran about 7 miles - I have to stay fit and healthy. We cannot let our selves go. I know you can be strong and take care of yourself.

And of course

HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!! Yes, treat yourself. You deserve it.

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Just sat and cried this afternoon a bit

Post by bballgirl on Oct 22, 2016 14:47:03 GMT -5

Post by leifericson on Feb 25, 2017 17:08:18 GMT -5

Post by McRoomMate on Feb 25, 2017 18:25:21 GMT -5

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