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Post by Deleted on Oct 21, 2016 13:32:49 GMT -5
I'm sorry about your birthday coming up. It's too bad we can not all get together and have a big party. You should go out and enjoy your birthday without the spouse. Go buy yourself something nice. I'm sure you're a beautiful person who deserves a nice birthday.
It's easy to have a crappy day when you're spouse does not care enough about you to make it a fun day. You can make this a turning point in your life. Give yourself the best birthday present. A plan to get out or make the marriage work. Promise yourself that you'll not be sitting in the same place next year.
I hope your day improves and know that many people on here feel your pain. It'll get easy, especially if you decide to do something about it.
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Post by ted on Oct 21, 2016 13:47:24 GMT -5
I'm sorry you're having a particularly rough day. I know what that's like. Awww..thank you ted . I know. This all sucks. Can you put a smile on your face for me please?? :-) I'll tell you what, when (not if---look at my forced optimism!) either one of us makes it out of our deal, I'll put on a smile. Until then, for your birthday...  (LOL, the smile toolbar button drop-down on the "create post" page has an option to "disable smiles". Don't tempt me, universe.) |
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Post by ggold on Oct 21, 2016 13:57:21 GMT -5
Awww..thank you ted . I know. This all sucks. Can you put a smile on your face for me please?? :-) I'll tell you what, when (not if---look at my forced optimism!) either one of us makes it out of our deal, I'll put on a smile. Until then, for your birthday... (LOL, the smile toolbar button drop-down on the "create post" page has an option to "disable smiles". Don't tempt me, universe.) Deal!! |
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Post by solodriver on Oct 21, 2016 20:28:08 GMT -5
ggold , Birthdays and holidays can suck really hard if your love life is all wrong. I've dreaded the holidays for the past 4 years. Even 3-day weekends like Labor Day have sucked. Probably because I have this fantasy in my head that everybody else is having fun except me. (Note to self: Don't compare my insides to other people's outsides.) I'm not having sex on 3 day weekends, holidays, daytime, nighttime or Saturdays either.
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Post by Caris on Oct 21, 2016 21:05:58 GMT -5
Wishing you a Happy Birthday, ggold. 🎂🎁🎉💐😊
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Post by Dan on Oct 22, 2016 7:24:32 GMT -5
Happy Birthday, ggold ! If you are still feeling glum (as you were earlier in the week), just try to focus on any bright spots that you have in your life... even if it is only the light at the end of the tunnel! Sending hugs... |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 22, 2016 9:30:25 GMT -5
Happy Birthday to you, I hope you have a great day. Go and do something different today.
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Post by skguy on Oct 22, 2016 10:30:44 GMT -5
Having a pity party. Some days are better than others. I feel very empty, scattered, disconnected. I think my birthday coming up on Saturday is bringing up feelings that another year has gone by and nothing has changed because I have not done anything about it. I'm so pissed off at myself for being a coward. It's one of those days. :-( You're not a coward. There is nothing easy about any of this. You're one of the best people I know. Always there for you Hugs |
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Post by beachguy on Oct 22, 2016 10:56:45 GMT -5
Happy birthday ggold! You are on a journey through the most difficult thing you will ever do. I hope that today you get the resolve to do what you need to do. It takes time to build that resolve. I hope you enjoy your day and find that resolve. |
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Post by ggold on Oct 22, 2016 12:55:17 GMT -5
Happy birthday ggold ! You are on a journey through the most difficult thing you will ever do. I hope that today you get the resolve to do what you need to do. It takes time to build that resolve. I hope you enjoy your day and find that resolve. Thank you so much!!! Your kind words mean so much to me!! xoxo |
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Post by ggold on Oct 22, 2016 13:02:27 GMT -5
Wishing you a Happy Birthday, ggold. 🎂🎁🎉💐😊 Thank you so much Caris!!! xoxoxo |
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Post by ggold on Oct 22, 2016 13:03:03 GMT -5
Having a pity party. Some days are better than others. I feel very empty, scattered, disconnected. I think my birthday coming up on Saturday is bringing up feelings that another year has gone by and nothing has changed because I have not done anything about it. I'm so pissed off at myself for being a coward. It's one of those days. :-( You're not a coward. There is nothing easy about any of this. You're one of the best people I know. Always there for you Hugs ((HUGS)) back my dear friend. Luv u!!! xoxox |
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Post by ggold on Oct 22, 2016 13:03:50 GMT -5
Happy Birthday to you, I hope you have a great day. Go and do something different today. Thank you so much!!! I may be stuck home. He's sick. I'll make up for it another day!! Actually, Tuesday I am going to see Carrie Underwood in concert so I plan on having a great night!! xoxo |
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Post by ggold on Oct 22, 2016 13:04:19 GMT -5
Happy Birthday, ggold ! If you are still feeling glum (as you were earlier in the week), just try to focus on any bright spots that you have in your life... even if it is only the light at the end of the tunnel! Sending hugs... Thank you Dan!! You are a sweetheart!!! I'm trying!!! xoxoxo |
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Post by beachguy on Oct 22, 2016 13:23:44 GMT -5
Happy birthday ggold ! You are on a journey through the most difficult thing you will ever do. I hope that today you get the resolve to do what you need to do. It takes time to build that resolve. I hope you enjoy your day and find that resolve. Thank you so much!!! Your kind words mean so much to me!! xoxo Looking back at your Anniversary thread less than 3 weeks ago, you made it very clear your exit plan is not yet viable. Suggesting this is not an issue of lack of resolve but a practical matter of a lack of a viable exit plan. If that's the case you know what you need to focus on this year... |
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