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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 20:07:27 GMT -5
Maybe there is a reason this guy is in a sexless marriage... Or maybe he isn't and it his hook to troll married women. We saw that a lot on EP, and maybe there has been some examples here too? |
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Post by JMX on Oct 4, 2016 20:21:22 GMT -5
My first name's Johnny. No one knows my last name. The fact that she had sex with him and didn't know his last name blows my mind. Before I will sleep with someone I have to know their full name. I will even make them show me their driver's license. One time I went out with a cop, I made him show me his license and badge. This day in age safety should be a huge priority. #safety. Yes! Please. Condoms cannot protect you from chainsaw massacres. I am wondering if he ever said: it puts the lotion in the basket or it gets the hose. |
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Post by jim44444 on Oct 4, 2016 22:30:37 GMT -5
I am wondering if he ever said: it puts the lotion in the basket or it gets the hose. It has been a long day. I need a translation. |
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Post by Dan on Oct 4, 2016 22:50:21 GMT -5
Before I will sleep with someone I have to know their full name. I will even make them show me their driver's license. Overheard: BBallGirl: "OK, but before we have sex, whip it out and show me the little head." Her date: "Umm... OK..." [starts to unzip his fly] BBallGirl: "Not THAT little head! I was referring to your picture on your drivers license!" |
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Post by bballgirl on Oct 5, 2016 5:25:14 GMT -5
I am wondering if he ever said: it puts the lotion in the basket or it gets the hose. It has been a long day. I need a translation. Yes JMX inquiring minds would like to know what the heck does that mean? I've read it 5 times trying to figure it out! |
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Post by cagedtiger on Oct 5, 2016 7:05:06 GMT -5
It has been a long day. I need a translation. Yes JMX inquiring minds would like to know what the heck does that mean? I've read it 5 times trying to figure it out! The Silence of the Lambs. Buffalo Bill. |
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Post by Dan on Oct 5, 2016 7:18:24 GMT -5
I am wondering if he ever said: it puts the lotion in the basket or it gets the hose. It has been a long day. I need a translation. Yes JMX inquiring minds would like to know what the heck does that mean? I've read it 5 times trying to figure it out! Wow... OK, I guess I need some strengthening in the "pop culture reference" department. But, as usual, I cover my weaknesses with my strengths: I can Google anything! Here is the definition from Urban Dictionary: |
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Post by JMX on Oct 5, 2016 7:36:45 GMT -5
Sorry for dropping that without explanation - I fell asleep! Thanks for having my back cagedtiger. Dan - I appreciate your Google skillz. I don't know though if I would ever apply any of the Urban Dictionary references. Hmm.. My point was that it is a scary world and I wouldn't want to be stuck in some psycho's basement pit, being asked to put lotion on my skin - a la Silence of the Lambs.  |
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Post by Dan on Oct 5, 2016 8:02:56 GMT -5
... I don't know though if I would ever apply any of the Urban Dictionary references. Hmm... My 15 year old daughter just about fainted with embarrassment that I mentioned in passing that I looked something up on Urban Dictionary. (Little did she know that she should have been embarrassed that Dad now knows SHE knows what Urban Dictionary even is...) Yes, it has definitions for tons of slang, including nasty sex acts, anti-social behaviors, and just dumb stuff. So it is not for the faint of heart. But this sort of stuff is perfect for the crowd-sourced format of the site. One of my main uses is to decode song lyrics. I couldn't figure out for the life of me what Gwen Stefani's was singing about in "Hollaback Girl". UD to the rescue! Even gave me the etymology: Hollaback Girl. By the way, I've even added entries. My definition for " cuckhold" is the top voted definition. |
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Post by Caris on Oct 5, 2016 9:02:57 GMT -5
She has a pussy she can have her pick if she looks in the right places. I've never understood this. Being a woman (and a very good looking one in my younger years...up to around mid 50s), I just don't know how this works. Surely, a woman doesn't want to sleep with any old guy? Maybe it's me, but even before my SM, I would be in sexual frustration hell for long periods of time until I met someone who I actually liked. Bballgirl, I wish it were true that a woman could have her pick just because she has a certain anatomical part because it was only a couple of days ago, I was thinking, "how on earth does a woman like me have sex? How can I have it? I don't know. Someone told me to go sit at a bar, but that's not me. A pick up is so far removed from who I am, and what I want, but still the question remains unanswered. If I looked like I did 10-years ago, maybe I'd have a chance, but not now. I think I'm invisible. |
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Post by bballgirl on Oct 5, 2016 9:57:16 GMT -5
She has a pussy she can have her pick if she looks in the right places. I've never understood this. Being a woman (and a very good looking one in my younger years...up to around mid 50s), I just don't know how this works. Surely, a woman doesn't want to sleep with any old guy? Maybe it's me, but even before my SM, I would be in sexual frustration hell for long periods of time until I met someone who I actually liked. Bballgirl, I wish it were true that a woman could have her pick just because she has a certain anatomical part because it was only a couple of days ago, I was thinking, "how on earth does a woman like me have sex? How can I have it? I don't know. Someone told me to go sit at a bar, but that's not me. A pick up is so far removed from who I am, and what I want, but still the question remains unanswered. If I looked like I did 10-years ago, maybe I'd have a chance, but not now. I think I'm invisible. - first let me say I just want to give you a hug. I can tell that you are just so broken and down on yourself. Based on things that you have written I have felt that you are very unfair to yourself. I have also thought that based on probably your concept of beauty that if you saw ME on the street you would probably find ME to be unattractive. I am very overweight, not in the greatest shape, I have wrinkles, my hands are not as feminine looking as they once were (back in the day I could have been a hand model). I'm starting to get grey hair, I need makeup to look my best. So trust me a get it but that is just part of getting older and I will fight it every step of the way to TRY to be the best me that I can be. I will try to do things that make me FEEL pretty. First thing is to wear a SMILE. Go for pedicures, dye or hi light my hair, wear a $60 bra that makes the girls look great! Wear sexy lingerie for ME, yes I teach children in sexy panties but nobody knows that except me because it only matters what I want and what I feel. As far as Men and dating and having sex - it works on this premise: BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER. On the dating website I usually don't message a man. The few times I did most did not respond. They were not attracted to me. I get a lot of messages from men most of whom I'm not attracted to. However I put myself out there to the possibility that I could meet a nice guy. I'm very picky and I won't sleep with just anyone. Since March I've gone out with 19 different men. I had sex with 3. I probably could have had sex with 14. The 3 I had sex with I decided not to sleep with them more than the one time for different reasons. To adress your points: I've never understood this. Being a woman (and a very good looking one in my younger years...up to around mid 50s), I just don't know how this works. Surely, a woman doesn't want to sleep with any old guy? My response: Absolutely not but there is nothing wrong with meeting a man for a drink to see if there's chemistry. Like I said you have to put yourself out there. Get all gussied up take a photo and join some dating websites, it's fun. Even the men I'm not attracted to - I read their message, thank them for their kind words in regards to my beauty and keep it short. Bballgirl, I wish it were true that a woman could have her pick just because she has a certain anatomical part because it was only a couple of days ago, I was thinking, "how on earth does a woman like me have sex? - How can I have it? - My response: Put yourself out there - beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Someone told me to go sit at a bar, but that's not me. A pick up is so far removed from who I am, and what I want, but still the question remains unanswered. If I looked like I did 10-years ago, maybe I'd have a chance, but not now. I think I'm invisible. My response- I am not a bar person either. Trust me a man would not be picking me up at a bar. I'm not the one they would be interested in so I get that. For me right now a dating website is the best way for me to meet men, have some fun, I'm not looking for the love of my life, I'm only looking to meet men, learn about myself from the experiences and maybe get laid every now and then. As far as a woman having her pick - that's on Ashley Madison if I just wanted to get laid. That journey started 3 years ago and I had my pick on that website. Fortunately I hit the jackpot and met a man that I am extremely sexually compatible with. He's still in my life. I consider him a friend now. Back then I was at an all time low with thoughts very similar to yours. I would think about ways to kill myself i was so depressed, they were just thoughts though. I knew it wasn't right, I focused on myself. I wanted to have sex so I put myself out there to get it. Fortune favors the bold. If you don't go after what you want in life it won't come to you. I hope you didn't take this with any disrespect. I'm only trying to help from the bottom of my heart. Xoxo |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2016 14:24:16 GMT -5
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Post by greatcoastal on Oct 5, 2016 14:58:13 GMT -5
My favorite Clint Eastwood line, " Bravo!" |
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Post by GeekGoddess on Oct 5, 2016 15:22:37 GMT -5
This is the part, the clincher for me: I'm only looking to meet men, learn about myself from the experiences.
This is all the more I am hoping for from Match.com. I'd like to get a coffee or lunch to see if there's a need for a dinner at all even. Spend a few times out getting to know a person and learning about myself what strikes a chord or doesn't. I don't have any notion that I would meet a long term partner on the site, not yet I don't have that idea anyway - because most are too far away or I haven't even been into enough, through messages, to make a date for a coffee. Most of the blokes who have written once don't write back. Many of the ones I have messaged don't write back. I can even get a string of replies back & forth but then eventually, they don't write back.
For me - this is okay really. I still have fine-tuned some of my preferences from that experience.
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Post by Caris on Oct 5, 2016 16:20:24 GMT -5
I've never understood this. Being a woman (and a very good looking one in my younger years...up to around mid 50s), I just don't know how this works. Surely, a woman doesn't want to sleep with any old guy? Maybe it's me, but even before my SM, I would be in sexual frustration hell for long periods of time until I met someone who I actually liked. Bballgirl, I wish it were true that a woman could have her pick just because she has a certain anatomical part because it was only a couple of days ago, I was thinking, "how on earth does a woman like me have sex? How can I have it? I don't know. Someone told me to go sit at a bar, but that's not me. A pick up is so far removed from who I am, and what I want, but still the question remains unanswered. If I looked like I did 10-years ago, maybe I'd have a chance, but not now. I think I'm invisible. - first let me say I just want to give you a hug. I can tell that you are just so broken and down on yourself. Based on things that you have written I have felt that you are very unfair to yourself. I have also thought that based on probably your concept of beauty that if you saw ME on the street you would probably find ME to be unattractive. I am very overweight, not in the greatest shape, I have wrinkles, my hands are not as feminine looking as they once were (back in the day I could have been a hand model). I'm starting to get grey hair, I need makeup to look my best. So trust me a get it but that is just part of getting older and I will fight it every step of the way to TRY to be the best me that I can be. I will try to do things that make me FEEL pretty. First thing is to wear a SMILE. Go for pedicures, dye or hi light my hair, wear a $60 bra that makes the girls look great! Wear sexy lingerie for ME, yes I teach children in sexy panties but nobody knows that except me because it only matters what I want and what I feel. As far as Men and dating and having sex - it works on this premise: BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER. On the dating website I usually don't message a man. The few times I did most did not respond. They were not attracted to me. I get a lot of messages from men most of whom I'm not attracted to. However I put myself out there to the possibility that I could meet a nice guy. I'm very picky and I won't sleep with just anyone. Since March I've gone out with 19 different men. I had sex with 3. I probably could have had sex with 14. The 3 I had sex with I decided not to sleep with them more than the one time for different reasons. To adress your points: I've never understood this. Being a woman (and a very good looking one in my younger years...up to around mid 50s), I just don't know how this works. Surely, a woman doesn't want to sleep with any old guy? My response: Absolutely not but there is nothing wrong with meeting a man for a drink to see if there's chemistry. Like I said you have to put yourself out there. Get all gussied up take a photo and join some dating websites, it's fun. Even the men I'm not attracted to - I read their message, thank them for their kind words in regards to my beauty and keep it short. Bballgirl, I wish it were true that a woman could have her pick just because she has a certain anatomical part because it was only a couple of days ago, I was thinking, "how on earth does a woman like me have sex? - How can I have it? - My response: Put yourself out there - beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Someone told me to go sit at a bar, but that's not me. A pick up is so far removed from who I am, and what I want, but still the question remains unanswered. If I looked like I did 10-years ago, maybe I'd have a chance, but not now. I think I'm invisible. My response- I am not a bar person either. Trust me a man would not be picking me up at a bar. I'm not the one they would be interested in so I get that. For me right now a dating website is the best way for me to meet men, have some fun, I'm not looking for the love of my life, I'm only looking to meet men, learn about myself from the experiences and maybe get laid every now and then. As far as a woman having her pick - that's on Ashley Madison if I just wanted to get laid. That journey started 3 years ago and I had my pick on that website. Fortunately I hit the jackpot and met a man that I am extremely sexually compatible with. He's still in my life. I consider him a friend now. Back then I was at an all time low with thoughts very similar to yours. I would think about ways to kill myself i was so depressed, they were just thoughts though. I knew it wasn't right, I focused on myself. I wanted to have sex so I put myself out there to get it. Fortune favors the bold. If you don't go after what you want in life it won't come to you. I hope you didn't take this with any disrespect. I'm only trying to help from the bottom of my heart. Xoxo Bballgirl, thank you for taking the time to respond so thoroughly. I suppose the take away from this is to put myself "out there." I don't know where "out there" is, and I can't go the dating site route because it's not for me. It is what it is. I know this, and not everyone is supposed to be with someone, and I don't have the energy to make an effort. I'm drained, and to market myself (which I don't want to do anyway) would require mental and emotional energy that I don't have at this time. If I'm blessed to run into someone who is right for me, then it will happen, but if not, then that's how it will be...as it is now. I didn't take this with disrespect. I know you are trying to help. I was just curious because even though I've heard this before, it never made sense to me. Love & hugs. |
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