Never lived with a man who wants sex

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Never lived with a man who wants sex Sept 21, 2016 7:12:30 GMT -5 via mobile GeekGoddess likes this

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Post by bballgirl on Sept 21, 2016 7:12:30 GMT -5

Sept 20, 2016 21:30:27 GMT -5 pinkjeanie70 said:

I haven't lived with a man who wants sex, either, and I fantasize about spontaneous sex a lot. Or, experiencing the knowing look in his eyes that something spicy is going to happen soon. To feel and be truly desired is worth more than a good paycheck, nice jewelry or fancy vacations. Been there. Done that. How he spends his paycheck (wisely) and time (actively) are more important to me. I wonder if I, "need" to be married or if I'd live with a man again. Isn't it weird to be starting over in mid-life and being fairly self-sufficient? I mean, I don't have kids, I'm beyond child bearing years, I live in a home I can afford on my own, and I don't take care of anyone's meals, laundry or budgets. I'd live with a man for the sake of snuggling, more spontaneous sex and quality of companionship. Yep. It'd have to be a quality dude to live with him.

Except for the children your words are exactly how I feel and yes it would take an awesome man that totally knocked my socks off to make me want to live with a man.

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Never lived with a man who wants sex Nov 22, 2016 4:24:36 GMT -5

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Post by murphysd on Nov 22, 2016 4:24:36 GMT -5

After reading the initial post, I have come to realize that I have never lived with a woman who liked and enjoyed sex. I dated a woman while in college during the late 60's. She was a truly magnificent woman. I thought I'd hit the jackpot. Smart, gorgeous, and sexually insatiable. I went to pick her up one evening, only to have one of her family members tell me that she went to NYC to get married. She dropped out of college. I never saw or heard from her again.

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Never lived with a man who wants sex Nov 22, 2016 9:54:08 GMT -5 via Tapatalk greatcoastal likes this

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Post by beachguy on Nov 22, 2016 9:54:08 GMT -5

Sept 20, 2016 21:30:27 GMT -5 pinkjeanie70 said:

To feel and be truly desired is worth more than...

And I can't imagine living with a woman whose attitude isn't "all you ever think about is sex!"

That usually after my once a month request, me not being the type to pester constantly for the attainable ...

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Never lived with a man who wants sex

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Post by beachguy on Nov 22, 2016 9:54:08 GMT -5

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