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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2016 16:46:15 GMT -5
We need a term to call the spouse in a sexless marriage.
I was with wife at the therapist today. It was all about her as usual, and my mind wondered.
I was forming a thought with calling her my roommate. I never got it out though.
What did you do this week? I did some puzzles with my roommate. We cooked, did laundry and went for a walk.
When she was out for a few minutes, I rubbed one out.
There are newly weds, right. We need a sexless weds type of term. Usually I introduce her as my wife. We need different terms for the sexless marriage.
any thoughts?
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Post by bballgirl on Aug 27, 2016 16:49:55 GMT -5
How about wifester- wife + sister = wifester
I used to call my husband my husbro now I call him my ex.
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Post by wewbwb on Aug 27, 2016 16:59:29 GMT -5
The generic term is "refuser".
"Roommate" works.
But some of us have our own pet names.
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Post by ted on Aug 27, 2016 17:53:16 GMT -5
Hmm. Playing off the word "mate:" - antimate
- illegitimate
- approximate
- inmate ("in-" being a prefix meaning not)
- stalemate
- overestimate
- inanimate
- penultimate (for the hopeful among us)
Thanks for the distraction, @lostsoul. My heart needed a good laugh.
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Post by unmatched on Aug 27, 2016 18:06:45 GMT -5
Hmm. Playing off the word "mate:" - antimate
- illegitimate
- approximate
- inmate ("in-" being a prefix meaning not)
- stalemate
- overestimate
- inanimate
- penultimate (for the hopeful among us)
Thanks for the distraction, @lostsoul. My heart needed a good laugh.
Haha inanimate is really good! |
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Post by bballgirl on Aug 27, 2016 19:11:21 GMT -5
Hmm. Playing off the word "mate:" - antimate
- illegitimate
- approximate
- inmate ("in-" being a prefix meaning not)
- stalemate
- overestimate
- inanimate
- penultimate (for the hopeful among us)
Thanks for the distraction, @lostsoul. My heart needed a good laugh.
I like inmate - I always felt like I was in prison |
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Post by wewbwb on Aug 27, 2016 20:05:07 GMT -5
Hmm. Playing off the word "mate:" - antimate
- illegitimate
- approximate
- inmate ("in-" being a prefix meaning not)
- stalemate
- overestimate
- inanimate
- penultimate (for the hopeful among us)
Thanks for the distraction, @lostsoul . My heart needed a good laugh.
I like inmate - I always felt like I was in prison Wouldn't that make her "The Warden" ? |
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Post by baza on Aug 27, 2016 20:12:08 GMT -5
"Roommate" is a common enough descriptive in here, and on the old EP group as well.
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Under closer examination, it is often found that the refuser spouse ain't even much of a roommate.
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But in the interests of contributing something, hows about combining "avoidant" with "refuser" for "avuser".
Sounds alright, and is pretty close to "abuser" (which would be a far more accurate tag)
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Post by bballgirl on Aug 27, 2016 20:12:34 GMT -5
I like inmate - I always felt like I was in prison Wouldn't that make her "The Warden" ? Yeah but I told my husband I felt like he was my jailer. I had this prison/ warden fantasy and he didn't deserve that term. |
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Post by wewbwb on Aug 27, 2016 20:16:14 GMT -5
Wouldn't that make her "The Warden" ? Yeah but I told my husband I felt like he was my jailer. I had this prison/ warden fantasy and he didn't deserve that term. So this just got good..... |
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Post by greatcoastal on Aug 27, 2016 20:16:48 GMT -5
What about a NCSOMP?
Non
Communicative
Sharing
Of
Material
Possessions.
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Post by baza on Aug 27, 2016 20:29:27 GMT -5
Certifiably
Undermining
Nuptial
Treaty
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Post by bballgirl on Aug 27, 2016 20:35:04 GMT -5
Certifiably Undermining Nuptial Treaty Best response ever!! |
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Post by obobfla on Aug 27, 2016 21:05:40 GMT -5
Being
Intolerant
To
Coitus
Happenings
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Post by obobfla on Aug 27, 2016 21:07:49 GMT -5
The male version:
Being
A
Selfish
Tight
Asshole
Refusing
Desires
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