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Post by greatcoastal on Aug 27, 2016 21:27:20 GMT -5
Time for more SM t- shirts!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2016 21:29:15 GMT -5
How about wifester- wife + sister = wifester I used to call my husband my husbro now I call him my ex. "...now I call him my ex." That's the best thing to call her, lostsoul. |
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Post by deborahmanning on Aug 27, 2016 21:30:54 GMT -5
wait, there were T shirts? I missed out on ordering!
All my existing T shirts have some kind of message, so why not say what's REALLY going on, to those that need to know.
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Post by GeekGoddess on Aug 27, 2016 23:06:50 GMT -5
I can picture at a work party: Hi, I'd like you to meet Jane - the woman I married and the reason I cry myself to sleep at night.
But that may not go over well with the avoidant spouse or the party guests. (For some reason it is making me laugh, though - but I'm a twisted sort!)
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Post by baza on Aug 28, 2016 1:44:25 GMT -5
Wilfully
Ignores
Fucking
Experiences
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Post by baza on Aug 29, 2016 3:10:58 GMT -5
Heavily
Under
Sexed
Bloke
And
No
Desire
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Post by baza on Aug 29, 2016 3:18:10 GMT -5
Fun
In
Advance
Next
Comes
Emptiness.
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Post by baza on Aug 29, 2016 3:30:40 GMT -5
Bloke,
Obviously
Young,
Fucks
Randily
Initially,
Ends
Nookie
Decisively.
Gets
Into
Rooting
Lavishly,
Falters,
Reverses
In
Enthusiasm
Now
Denies.
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Post by warmways on Aug 29, 2016 7:54:48 GMT -5
Forgetting
About
Love
Sex
Empathy
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Post by Deleted on Aug 30, 2016 10:30:37 GMT -5
Hmm. Playing off the word "mate:" - antimate
- illegitimate
- approximate
- inmate ("in-" being a prefix meaning not)
- stalemate
- overestimate
- inanimate
- penultimate (for the hopeful among us)
Thanks for the distraction, @lostsoul. My heart needed a good laugh.
I like "antimate." It can be seen two ways: "Anti" (opposite) - therefore the opposite of "intimate." Or anti mate - NOT a true mate. |
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Post by Casiyessie on Aug 30, 2016 12:23:25 GMT -5
I laughed really loud at this. I needed that! but now I'm going to be consumed with trying to think of another name for my husmaid. He insists he's like my maid because I won't touch the dishes. It's the only thing he does.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2016 17:53:44 GMT -5
I laughed really loud at this. I needed that! but now I'm going to be consumed with trying to think of another name for my husmaid. He insists he's like my maid because I won't touch the dishes. It's the only thing he does. I am the maid in my house. She might help a little with the work, but I do all the laundry, dishes, and cooking. (cleaning too) Save |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2016 17:55:47 GMT -5
I heard prison mentioned. I have been saying the being in a SM is prison!!!
I wish we had an acceptable social term the we could use casually, saying that the spouse denies us sex. I refer to mine as being asexual. (she admits that she has no sex drive.)
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Post by GeekGoddess on Sept 6, 2016 7:56:17 GMT -5
I did use the terms for jailer and prisoner at one stage. THEN realized I was the one voluntarily going back to the prison each night after work and handing my key to him. F* that. I was my own jailer once I saw it. I escaped through careful planning and forthcoming talks wherein I disclosed in the kindest terminology possible that the soul-killing marriage was optional and I had no belief that the marriage could be changed into "not soul-killing" so I was calling "time" on the game and taking my ball and going to search for another field to play on.
I called him roommate for a time also.
But I loved when I got to start referring to him by STBX.
And it was a good day when I got to call him "Ex"
Business partner is one that rings true alot.
Co-Owner (i.e., of that little piece of paradise that was our property) was also an accurate reflection.
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 6, 2016 9:01:36 GMT -5
I did use the terms for jailer and prisoner at one stage. THEN realized I was the one voluntarily going back to the prison each night after work and handing my key to him. F* that. I was my own jailer once I saw it. I escaped through careful planning and forthcoming talks wherein I disclosed in the kindest terminology possible that the soul-killing marriage was optional and I had no belief that the marriage could be changed into "not soul-killing" so I was calling "time" on the game and taking my ball and going to search for another field to play on. I called him roommate for a time also. But I loved when I got to start referring to him by STBX. And it was a good day when I got to call him "Ex" Business partner is one that rings true a lot. Co-Owner (i.e., of that little piece of paradise that was our property) was also an accurate reflection. You hit on a topic I discuss. A business partner, communicates,discloses finances, shares in profits,expenses, loses, etc...there is a high amount of trust. I have had experiences with roommates where we shared emotions, good times and bad,expenses, finances, household chores, favors, encouragement, faith, privacy, respect, and trust. I have a hard time putting a failed, dead,selfish, one sided marriage, above roommates and business partners. |
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