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Update - I'm DONE! Aug 25, 2016 22:53:56 GMT -5 via mobile pfviento likes this

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Aug 25, 2016 21:59:30 GMT -5 @elle said:

Aug 25, 2016 21:20:32 GMT -5 @phinheasgage said:

@phinheasgage said:

"Please tell me you didn't use the word "permission."

Bitches with pink hair don't need permission!"

Point taken and well-received, @phinheasgage . Bear with me. I'll get there. I WILL!!

Damn straight you will.

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Update - I'm DONE! Aug 25, 2016 23:41:13 GMT -5 DryCreek likes this

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Post by timeforliving2 on Aug 25, 2016 23:41:13 GMT -5

Glad to see this updated thread, Elle! You *own* your exit plan. A 2-year exit plan may be a bit different than the norm, but if it's reasonable for you and gets you to where you want to go, then own it and execute on that plan. You have discovered - just like I have and many others have - You get your control and upper hand in the SM situation when you're willing to walk.

Wishing you all the best!

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I adopted this TWIST on the traditional Serenity Prayer:
"I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept."
Life goes on. Time marches on. No more status quo. It's time for living.

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