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Post by angeleyes65 on Apr 19, 2019 21:10:06 GMT -5
Emotional eating
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firefollower
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Post by firefollower on Apr 19, 2019 21:19:35 GMT -5
Question for today: What bad habit would you like to break? biting nails
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Post by saarinista on Apr 19, 2019 23:42:40 GMT -5
Constantly running late.
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Post by saarinista on Apr 19, 2019 23:48:22 GMT -5
Bad habit, maybe a temperament style. Looking for paths that work for several people at a minimum of my expense. I know this so I usually advance with caution. I don't trust enough to get lucky or think the answers I have are always going to be correct. Maybe this is not a bad habit. Handy, may I weight in? I think your bad habit is being overly analytical because you fear bring "wrong." In other words, perfectionism. I'm the same way. It's very damaging to our happiness. News flash: no one is perfect. Mistakes aren't bad. They're human.
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Post by Handy on Apr 20, 2019 1:29:46 GMT -5
Running late? I usually get to places with little or no time to spare.
Yes Saarinista being "wrong." didn't work in my area of employment, even now that I am retired. I am expected to pay for any mistake I make. At work it has always been that way.
I still have the fear of being wrong so proceed with caution. One lawyer I was listening to said the biggest problem people make is not being aware of things they don't know about but they think they have all of the important information.
No jumping out of good airplanes or even driving my car out onto the ice to go ice fishing for me. Walking and texting, no way.
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Post by saarinista on Apr 21, 2019 1:28:08 GMT -5
Running late? I usually get to places with little or no time to spare. Yes Saarinista being "wrong." didn't work in my area of employment, even now that I am retired. I am expected to pay for any mistake I make. At work it has always been that way. I still have the fear of being wrong so proceed with caution. One lawyer I was listening to said the biggest problem people make is not being aware of things they don't know about but they think they have all of the important information. No jumping out of good airplanes or even driving my car out onto the ice to go ice fishing for me. Walking and texting, no way. being careful is good. being fearful can be damaging. you can never avoid all mistakes.
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Post by lessingham on Apr 21, 2019 3:02:53 GMT -5
My life is a litany of mistakes, but here I am, still buggering on.
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onlyhuman
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Learning to be all right with what I want.
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Post by onlyhuman on Apr 21, 2019 12:55:06 GMT -5
Question for today: What bad habit would you like to break? Always being the pursuer in my intimate relationships and not allowing myself to be pursued. 😟
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Post by sadkat on Apr 22, 2019 9:07:34 GMT -5
Question for today: What would your ideal life be like?
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Post by h on Apr 22, 2019 9:45:15 GMT -5
Question for today: What would your ideal life be like? Ideally, I would like a job that I can forget about when the work day is over. I would want to have a home where I could invite friends over regularly. I would want space in my home for hobbies. I would want enough land to live off of if I needed to. I wouldn't need vacations because I would have everything I would want at home. Most importantly though, I would have a woman in my life who shared my values and passionately desired me. She wouldn't need to share all my interests because she would have her own as an independent person. She would not cling to me every minute of the day, but she would make the most of the time we were together and give me a reason to come home every night and wake up with a smile every morning.
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Post by isthisit on Apr 22, 2019 16:22:32 GMT -5
Question for today: What would your ideal life be like? To meet someone I adore and who adores me is the dream. I believe that in these circumstances everything else would look after itself. However, I have had this once before. Unfortunately he got complacent and took me and what we had for granted. So, ideal life; the first bit without the second bit.
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Post by Handy on Apr 22, 2019 17:16:00 GMT -5
It might be good if I had one more bicycle to ride along with the 8 I already ride. Sorry, it is a bicycle pun.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2019 18:06:35 GMT -5
Question for today: What would your ideal life be like? Wow, that's quite a question. It would be very close to what it is now except: - My house building project would be done. - My wife would want to occasionally have sex with me instead of an annual handjob. - There would be an extra $500K in the bank, just for peace of mind.
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Post by angeleyes65 on Apr 23, 2019 19:21:11 GMT -5
Question for today: What would your ideal life be like? My ex would be sane , my son would be adulting better and I would have more money in the bank and either a coding at home job or only work 3 days a week. Pretty happy with everything else.
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Post by sadkat on Apr 23, 2019 21:16:33 GMT -5
Ok everyone- please don’t kill the messenger ( or in this case, the questioner). This is a two-part question and I am about to give you part #2. In order to keep up with your need to answer questions, I’ve been getting lots of help from the internet. I started with questions one might ask during a first date. Then I asked questions about relationships. Now, I’m starting to ask self-development questions. So here goes part 2: What can you do to start living your ideal life?
Since I’ve had the advantage of mulling this question over for a day, I’ll start. My ideal life would consist of living it on my terms. Being in love with a sexually compatible partner who can also challenge me intellectually. I’m finding that I am more of an emotional person than I initially thought. My emotional needs would be met by lots of different people (and animals) who will be welcomed into my life as long as they have the capacity to be honest, positive, and true to themselves.
What am I doing to start living my ideal life? One big step- I’m leaving my sm. I’m also relocating to be closer to family. I’m compiling a list of volunteer opportunities I’d love to participate in. I’m getting a puppy when I get settled (I sorely miss those puppy cuddles!) Finally, I’m becoming more involved in the social aspects of my job.
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