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Post by snowman12345 on Sept 7, 2018 16:44:37 GMT -5
What I wouldn’t give for a man’s hand on my thigh! I don’t get it- That is funny you say that- I had the EXACT same thought!! *sigh* the casual hand on the thigh.... damn Well, thighs also make great earmuffs...
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Post by sadkat on Sept 7, 2018 16:52:41 GMT -5
That is funny you say that- I had the EXACT same thought!! *sigh* the casual hand on the thigh.... damn Well, thighs also make great earmuffs... OMG! I’m loving that image! Geez! I’m gonna need another Tylenol PM tonight!
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 7, 2018 17:18:17 GMT -5
Interesting about it not being a subject easily discussed. In our group of friends there is a sexless couple. But far from it being swept under the mat, they openly joke about it. Mind you, in our group of friends there is not much that's off limits as far as conversational subjects. All sorts of things get talked about, and just about everyone gets the piss taken out of them. This couple are 30+ year veterans, their version of marriage seems to work for them. Mind you, I can't imagine the husband ever putting his hand on her thigh as Brother snowman12345 recounts, so her flinching at such a thing is likewise a non-event. They seem happy enough to me, although not at all sexually attracted to each other. As far as I know (and I do know them quite well) there's no outsourcing going on. You should call your friends Frigidaire and Kenmore!
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 7, 2018 17:24:54 GMT -5
What I wouldn’t give for a man’s hand on my thigh! I don’t get it- That is funny you say that- I had the EXACT same thought!! *sigh* the casual hand on the thigh.... damn I don't know what's worse? that, or.. having someone want to break off a very physical relationship ,then the next time you see them they are running their feet up your legs under the table! Then go their separate ways. So many mind games
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Post by csl on Sept 7, 2018 17:29:35 GMT -5
It is an awesome place to vent about SM issues. Last weekend my W and I went to a wedding. We were there with a number of old friends and I was the DD. At one point in the evening I reached over and unthinkingly, placed my hand on my W's thigh. She immediately backed away from me in her chair. She had a look on her face like I had just stabbed her with a steak knife. Our friend across the table said, "Oh, he is hoping for some tonight". Other friends started to giggle. I said, "All I have left is hope." The giggles shut down and the table fell silent as a tomb. I know for a fact that ours is not the only SM among those present that night. The elephant in the room... I'm not looking for advice or sympathy - just making the observation that ours is not a subject easily discussed. I know what you mean. The other day me and my W sitting on the bed and I put my hands on her thigh and she screamed like bloody rape. Time to get a second bed.
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Post by workingonit on Sept 7, 2018 17:34:00 GMT -5
That is funny you say that- I had the EXACT same thought!! *sigh* the casual hand on the thigh.... damn Well, thighs also make great earmuffs... And hand warmers. So multi-functional really
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 7, 2018 17:46:14 GMT -5
Well, thighs also make great earmuffs... And hand warmers. So multi-functional really I call them squeeze posts.
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 7, 2018 17:51:44 GMT -5
Anyone want to play ABC's Sex Word Association again? I mean, it is Friday night?
It's fun to do that with the right crowd and new people! There is pages of it buried back in "The Lighter Side"
It's also fun to read through it every now and then.
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Post by solodriver on Sept 7, 2018 21:03:28 GMT -5
It is an awesome place to vent about SM issues. Last weekend my W and I went to a wedding. We were there with a number of old friends and I was the DD. At one point in the evening I reached over and unthinkingly, placed my hand on my W's thigh. She immediately backed away from me in her chair. She had a look on her face like I had just stabbed her with a steak knife. Our friend across the table said, "Oh, he is hoping for some tonight". Other friends started to giggle. I said, "All I have left is hope." The giggles shut down and the table fell silent as a tomb. I know for a fact that ours is not the only SM among those present that night. The elephant in the room... I'm not looking for advice or sympathy - just making the observation that ours is not a subject easily discussed. What I wouldn’t give for a man’s hand on my thigh! I don’t get it- What I wouldn't give to be able to put my hand on a women's thigh!
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Post by WindSister on Sept 7, 2018 22:16:14 GMT -5
Needing a hand on my thigh was a huuuuuuge reason I left my SM. Now? I will never ever tire of my husband's hand on my thigh in the car, at functions, etc. His warmth and love shoots through me. I'll never take it for granted.
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