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Post by baza on Jul 22, 2018 23:28:13 GMT -5
Measured by distance, cornering is actually less than 15% of car racing. But you get that 15% wrong, then into the wall you go....no matter how good your other car racing skills might be.
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Post by ironhamster on Jul 22, 2018 23:56:36 GMT -5
I came to this forum a bit over a year ago with the belief that everything was ok except the sex. That is normal. I mean, that is our normal mindset. It is not normally true that sex is the only thing wrong. If sex was the only thing wrong, that would probably be fixable. In my case, it was just a symptom of much bigger problems.
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Post by baza on Jul 23, 2018 0:21:26 GMT -5
I came to this forum a bit over a year ago with the belief that everything was ok except the sex. That is normal. I mean, that is our normal mindset. It is not normally true that sex is the only thing wrong. If sex was the only thing wrong, that would probably be fixable. In my case, it was just a symptom of much bigger problems. That is entirely so Brother ironhamster . Without naming anyone (as I want to make a point, not bag anyone) I would direct the memberships attention to some recent contributors. One member describes a shrew like spouse with practically no impulse control and a volcanic temper. Yet the same member says the problem is "sex". Another describes the spouse as misogynous, a gaslighter, abusive and controlling. And initially says that the problem was "sex". You see it time after time after time. Members describing all sorts of abhorrent behaviours by their spouse, but also saying the problem is "sex". In ILIASM shitholes, sex is a symptom, not a diagnosis. Sex is like the canary in a cage in a mine. When the canary croaks it, that's a symptom that the atmosphere in the mine has become lethal. The problem is NOT that the canary bought the farm, the problem is that the atmosphere has become lethal. Ignore the real problem at your peril. The "ILIASM shithole canary" is the sex. When that falls off the perch, it's because the marital atmosphere has become toxic. Don't worry too much about the demise of Tweety Pie, that ain't the problem. Ignore the real problem at your peril.
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