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Post by Deleted on Feb 19, 2018 9:13:43 GMT -5
My wife never had interest no matter if I was in my best shape or my worst. Money? Flowers? Nice dinners? Vacations? New vehicles? All flops. Heck, until this year, every time I purchased a new vehicle for her I would ask to have sex in it. No vehicle was ever properly christened. Not by her, anyway, and not until this year. what's your status? ironhamster I only ask because I could use a new car-and I put out! 😁🤣😂 Girl, I was thinking the very same thing. 😉 ironhamster, your wife is going to be sorry when she sees what most women are offered by their men. She can have my H. She’d be happy with the no sex part, but he’d cut off all cleaning and home maintenance services, and she’d have to drive the same car until it died. She may find out (if she dares to date again) just how good she had it.
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Post by shamwow on Feb 19, 2018 10:07:15 GMT -5
My wife never had interest no matter if I was in my best shape or my worst. Money? Flowers? Nice dinners? Vacations? New vehicles? All flops. Heck, until this year, every time I purchased a new vehicle for her I would ask to have sex in it. No vehicle was ever properly christened. Not by her, anyway, and not until this year. A couple weeks ago ballofconfusion and I christened the back of her car. Neither of us had ever done that before but I've got to say that I'm glad the seats are leather. Easy clean-up.
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Post by shamwow on Feb 19, 2018 10:17:52 GMT -5
what's your status? ironhamster I only ask because I could use a new car-and I put out! 😁🤣😂 Girl, I was thinking the very same thing. 😉 ironhamster, your wife is going to be sorry when she sees what most women are offered by their men. She can have my H. She’d be happy with the no sex part, but he’d cut off all cleaning and home maintenance services, and she’d have to drive the same car until it died. She may find out (if she dares to date again) just how good she had it. My ex still has it really good. Relatively new car, maid service, new home, expensive furniture, trips to disney. Of course she only makes 36k per year and has no ambition for more. So as soon as the divorce lump sum runs out and the child support ends (which is 40 percent of her total income) she will be around 55-60 with no savings and no plan. In other words, completely fucked. If she's smart she will find herself a new guy who is also asexual to latch onto him. Of course I really have no idea what she would bring to the table in that scenario, but if she can pull it off, it might keep her afloat. Regardless it is no longer my problem. It truly does amaze me that I can pay all my bills, her mortgage, utilities, and part of her food, fly ballofconfusion (or myself) back and forth twice a month, and still be slightly cash positive every month. Methinks the ex has a spending problem.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 19, 2018 10:57:04 GMT -5
I did read recently that men wind up better off financially when they divorce, due to the very issue that shamwow mentions, the ex's spending. I even tried to tell this to my H as a reason for him to just let me go already. He didn't bite.
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Post by DryCreek on Feb 19, 2018 11:08:39 GMT -5
I did read recently that men wind up better off financially when they divorce, due to the very issue that shamwow mentions, the ex's spending. I even tried to tell this to my H as a reason for him to just let me go already. He didn't bite. Then it seems you're not spending enough, eh?
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Post by idgaf96 on Feb 19, 2018 11:22:32 GMT -5
what's your status? ironhamster I only ask because I could use a new car-and I put out! 😁🤣😂 LOL! Seven months ago we might have been able to work something out. My status is complicated. My wife has the papers to give me, but won't. The only commitment I have with idgaf96 is that we will be honest with each other. That being said, I am quite infatuated with her at every level and neither looking for nor accepting applications. 😘
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Post by Deleted on Feb 19, 2018 11:28:57 GMT -5
LOL! Seven months ago we might have been able to work something out. My status is complicated. My wife has the papers to give me, but won't. The only commitment I have with idgaf96 is that we will be honest with each other. That being said, I am quite infatuated with her at every level and neither looking for nor accepting applications. 😘 You guys are too cute. Happy you found each other and no worries, idgaf96, we're just teasing ironhamster and you have nothing to worry about. ;-)
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Post by shamwow on Feb 19, 2018 11:29:02 GMT -5
I did read recently that men wind up better off financially when they divorce, due to the very issue that shamwow mentions, the ex's spending. I even tried to tell this to my H as a reason for him to just let me go already. He didn't bite. Respectfully, it is not up to him to decide whether to "let you go". It is your decision to stay or go.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 19, 2018 11:29:41 GMT -5
I did read recently that men wind up better off financially when they divorce, due to the very issue that shamwow mentions, the ex's spending. I even tried to tell this to my H as a reason for him to just let me go already. He didn't bite. Then it seems you're not spending enough, eh? Excellent point DC!! Note to self: spend more. Hmm, I'm off work today. The mall is beckoning. Shoe collection needs feeding.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 19, 2018 11:31:04 GMT -5
I did read recently that men wind up better off financially when they divorce, due to the very issue that shamwow mentions, the ex's spending. I even tried to tell this to my H as a reason for him to just let me go already. He didn't bite. Respectfully, it is not up to him to decide whether to "let you go". It is your decision to stay or go. For sure, but as a team player, I am (wrongly or rightly) allowing him some say in it. He asked me to stay until this coming summer and so I will. And then all bets are off and the decision is mine.
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Post by shamwow on Feb 19, 2018 12:18:41 GMT -5
Respectfully, it is not up to him to decide whether to "let you go". It is your decision to stay or go. For sure, but as a team player, I am (wrongly or rightly) allowing him some say in it. He asked me to stay until this coming summer and so I will. And then all bets are off and the decision is mine. Sounds fair to me. And being fair now will help (although not guarantee) both of you playing nice if it comes to breaking it off. This is extremely important with the kids involved.
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Post by solodriver on Feb 19, 2018 16:00:36 GMT -5
My wife never had interest no matter if I was in my best shape or my worst. Money? Flowers? Nice dinners? Vacations? New vehicles? All flops. Heck, until this year, every time I purchased a new vehicle for her I would ask to have sex in it. No vehicle was ever properly christened. Not by her, anyway, and not until this year. My wife and I have never had sex in the house that we bought 15 years ago.
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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 19, 2018 16:30:39 GMT -5
My wife never had interest no matter if I was in my best shape or my worst. Money? Flowers? Nice dinners? Vacations? New vehicles? All flops. Heck, until this year, every time I purchased a new vehicle for her I would ask to have sex in it. No vehicle was ever properly christened. Not by her, anyway, and not until this year. My wife and I have never had sex in the house that we bought 15 years ago. Same here only it was 7 years ago. The house before that was once a year for 9 yrs. ( sadly I can relate) Do you feel robbed? I do. Do i want to make up for lost time? YES!! So, I am getting fit again. For my own self esteem. To get me ready for the "dating world". And to have the best me to offer to someone else. The me that was rejected years ago. (minus the hair LOL !!)
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Post by idgaf96 on Feb 19, 2018 17:34:20 GMT -5
My wife and I have never had sex in the house that we bought 15 years ago. Same here only it was 7 years ago. The house before that was once a year for 9 yrs. ( sadly I can relate) Do you feel robbed? I do. Do i want to make up for lost time? YES!! So, I am getting fit again. For my own self esteem. To get me ready for the "dating world". And to have the best me to offer to someone else. The me that was rejected years ago. (minus the hair LOL !!) [br No need for hair. Some of us like bald
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Post by ironhamster on Feb 19, 2018 17:45:37 GMT -5
My wife never had interest no matter if I was in my best shape or my worst. Money? Flowers? Nice dinners? Vacations? New vehicles? All flops. Heck, until this year, every time I purchased a new vehicle for her I would ask to have sex in it. No vehicle was ever properly christened. Not by her, anyway, and not until this year. My wife and I have never had sex in the house that we bought 15 years ago. Wow. That is way too long.
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