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Post by ihadalove on Jan 28, 2018 21:37:28 GMT -5
“Real passionate kissing is something I've been longing for, for many years (almost 7 now).” I remember my first kiss with my refuser x. It was very lacking. I naively assumed I could teach him. I endured 36 years of mere chicken pecks. First time I kissed Post sm lover, it was a real kiss. Perfect. Hot. Still are 5 years later....losing is so important and is such a good measure of compatibility. Nice. My wife and I used to totally lose ourselves in kissing, way back. Now it's as you describe with your hubby 1. I try to to gently grab a lip it's like I hit her with a tazer. Night 1 was a better kisser - you can tell when a person is 100% involved. Night two - very good also but somewhat passive. Either way I went away very happy. I miss intense kissing too. It was good at first, then declined. I get admonished for "trying to eat her face". I'm not doing anything different from when she was all for it.
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Post by M2G on Jan 28, 2018 22:45:35 GMT -5
THIS: "I miss intense kissing too. It was good at first, then declined. I get admonished for "trying to eat her face". I'm not doing anything different from when she was all for it."
I got exactly that - except for me, I was just "gross."
That hurt me really bad, that one. Probably the worst of all.
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Post by greatcoastal on Jan 28, 2018 23:12:09 GMT -5
THIS: "I miss intense kissing too. It was good at first, then declined. I get admonished for "trying to eat her face". I'm not doing anything different from when she was all for it."I got exactly that - except for me, I was just "gross." That hurt me really bad, that one. Probably the worst of all. You should read the article called "Relational Aggression" under resources. Here it is: www.avoiceformen.com/gynocentrism/relational-aggression-is-it-a-trap-for-men/
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Post by M2G on Jan 28, 2018 23:25:28 GMT -5
Good article. Thanks GC
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