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Post by flounder on Jun 20, 2018 18:16:21 GMT -5
7. Does that mean there is hope ? Or does that mean it’s halfway gone ?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2018 18:37:12 GMT -5
7. Does that mean there is hope ? Or does that mean it’s halfway gone ? It really depends on how much you value the ones you don't have. choosinghappy's score was 8 yes and 5 maybe back in November when I posted this and she's leaving.
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Post by northstarmom on Jun 20, 2018 18:41:18 GMT -5
In looking at your scorecard, what matters is what YOU are willing to settle for and what YOU are willing to give up.
With my refuser ex, I lacked 4 of the things. On my list. I was grossly unhappy and would have still been grossly unhappy if only sexual compatibility and passion were missing. With Post sm lover, I have everything on the list. I think I might choose to date someone if some things from the list were lacking. However, I wouldn’t choose such s person to live with or marry.
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 20, 2018 18:47:23 GMT -5
That's a very healthy list! I'm very glad for you to have that mind set. A very needed and deserving goal, and an attainable goal at that!
Well, I'm reluctant to post my score....it's zero. But you know what? I'm glad for it. Glad that I changed course and will benefit from it,and so will my family.
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Post by choosinghappy on Jun 21, 2018 7:41:47 GMT -5
7. Does that mean there is hope ? Or does that mean it’s halfway gone ? It really depends on how much you value the ones you don't have. choosinghappy's score was 8 yes and 5 maybe back in November when I posted this and she's leaving. Thanks for tagging me @shynjdude. This made me re-examine my response and look at my marriage again, now 8 months later. It has severely disintegrated in that time and now I can really only give a solid yes to 3. This is sobering. Good thing I am already planning on leaving.
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Post by solodriver on Jun 21, 2018 20:05:01 GMT -5
It really depends on how much you value the ones you don't have. choosinghappy 's score was 8 yes and 5 maybe back in November when I posted this and she's leaving. Thanks for tagging me @shynjdude . This made me re-examine my response and look at my marriage again, now 8 months later. It has severely disintegrated in that time and now I can really only give a solid yes to 3. This is sobering. Good thing I am already planning on leaving. You got one more than me. Woo Hoo !!
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Post by choosinghappy on Jun 26, 2018 19:45:13 GMT -5
nyctos This thread might help you with the advise unmatched gave you in your recent thread.
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