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Post by Deleted on Jun 12, 2017 10:22:57 GMT -5
I'm always surprised how much disrespect people will tolerate. But I'm never surprised how the tolerance leads to more and more disrespect. This is very profound, and very true. I have been separated from my refuser for 1 1/2 years, and I look back and I am amazed at the abuse I tolerated. Never Again.
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Post by petrushka on Jun 12, 2017 10:25:14 GMT -5
"You know, I don't hate this so much anymore." You lucky son of a bitch!
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Post by jim44444 on Jun 12, 2017 13:33:19 GMT -5
I cannot recall a reset line however I remember well one from back in the good old days. We were on the couch having a great time when she said "The dog is watching us." Yeah that took the air out of the balloon.
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Post by rdp62 on Jun 12, 2017 14:07:33 GMT -5
I'm always surprised how much disrespect people will tolerate. But I'm never surprised how the tolerance leads to more and more disrespect. This is very profound, and very true. I have been separated from my refuser for 1 1/2 years, and I look back and I am amazed at the abuse I tolerated. Never Again. Very true started off very slow and then became more and more frequent, death by a thousand cuts, and most of us probably trying to be nicer and more understanding just leads to more
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Post by Deleted on Jun 12, 2017 15:01:05 GMT -5
Nothing says love and respect quite as well as, "Siggghhhhhh, Oh, OK go ahead and get some but we just had sex the other day." It had been 3 months. I used to pour through EP and iVillage just to get some inkling that I wasn't a freak. I've shored up my defenses now but it takes such a toll on your self esteem that you lose all sense of proportion of what is abuse and what isn't.
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Post by snowman12345 on Jun 12, 2017 16:22:04 GMT -5
I cannot recall a reset line however I remember well one from back in the good old days. We were on the couch having a great time when she said "The dog is watching us." Yeah that took the air out of the balloon. A friend of mine was a volunteer fireman. One evening he and his girlfriend were in the midst of the deed when the fire whistle blew. He pulled out abruptly and he swears her lady parts snapped together so fast it made a clapping sound! They broke up soon thereafter...
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Post by Deleted on Jun 12, 2017 16:22:49 GMT -5
In the movie Annie Hall:
ALVY'S THERAPIST: How often do you sleep together?
ANNIE'S THERAPIST: Do you have sex often?
ALVY: Hardly ever. Maybe three times a week.
ANNIE: Constantly. I'd say three times a week.
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Post by h on Jun 12, 2017 16:28:51 GMT -5
In the movie Annie Hall: ALVY'S THERAPIST: How often do you sleep together? ANNIE'S THERAPIST: Do you have sex often? ALVY: Hardly ever. Maybe three times a week. ANNIE: Constantly. I'd say three times a week. Three times a week would be a dream come true!
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Post by meerin on Jun 18, 2017 1:40:57 GMT -5
You're pressuring me- said when I finally asked after not saying anything about sex for three months.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 4:31:17 GMT -5
This is very profound, and very true. I have been separated from my refuser for 1 1/2 years, and I look back and I am amazed at the abuse I tolerated. Never Again. Very true started off very slow and then became more and more frequent, death by a thousand cuts, and most of us probably trying to be nicer and more understanding just leads to more As the famous analogy goes, a lobster doesn't recognize he is in trouble until the water starts boiling, and then it's too late.
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Post by lyn on Jun 18, 2017 11:57:32 GMT -5
Right after the reset, "See....... I STILL got it" - big cheese-eating grin on his face.
Ick
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jun 18, 2017 12:40:29 GMT -5
Right after the reset, "See....... I STILL got it" - big cheese-eating grin on his face. Ick Ugh. Really?
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Post by whuffo on Jun 18, 2017 13:02:45 GMT -5
Right after the reset, "See....... I STILL got it" - big cheese-eating grin on his face. Ick To which your reply should have been "not exactly what I was thinking, but....oh well"
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Post by firefollower on Mar 27, 2019 19:06:08 GMT -5
"This really doesn't do anything for me anymore"
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Post by Handy on Mar 27, 2019 19:42:08 GMT -5
Not reset sex but a few topics in addition to "is that all you think about" "I (her) could be happy with 4 times a year" "It is too bad we have to have sex because it ruins the good foot-back and head/hair rubs you give." "Why don't you have ED like all normal men your age. You are 65 and normal men have ED at 50." Sex is for making babies and we are too old."
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