Refused, what's the reason for staying with such soul-crushing spouses?
Different for everyone I am sure but until now literally terror of being alone from past experience C-PTSD cause and there are normal times except for this now overwhelming issue it also wasn't like this and did not happen at once became like this over time and then I have been understanding because of her stress issues but those are over now and the truth and future has become obvious and this is worse than the loneliness terror. Going to call to find a divorce attorney tomorrow mon this was a last chance weekend and went as sadly expected no interest shown in any intimacy or even affection.
Post by ironhamster on Jun 11, 2017 12:39:49 GMT -5
Wow. I've never gotten a bad reset sex line, but, I've been crushed by her deadpan responses to "how was it?" I'm never the same man twice, because I like variety, and because the last one was never the right one. My artwork is never appreciated.
Post by ironhamster on Jun 11, 2017 12:52:03 GMT -5
No. Don't delete the thread. I think we can all laugh together on this. It's painful when it happens. After a while, it's dark humor.
My favorite response to "how was it?": (after working myself sweaty over her necrophiliac body over an hour of serious labia and cervical pummeling, then blowing a really good nut) "Next time, leave God out of it."
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bfar: Petrushka... I'm just wondering if we shot ourselves in the foot, as it were, by giving giving up on our strength, and giving in to the feminist agenda of making men irrelevant.
Nov 5, 2019 11:30:21 GMT -5
petrushka: Sorry, I don't buy into that at all. I'm not giving up anything. I've been into the "feminist agenda" for nearly 60 years. Having an empowered partner empowers me. I want strong women around me who take responsibility for themselves and who can face me
Nov 5, 2019 17:20:16 GMT -5
petrushka: I see 'strong men', and controlling bullies, as basically weak, lacking confidence and self esteem -- hence they think they need to assert themselves that way. I loathe patriarchy as much as matriarchy. Partners should be equals.
Nov 5, 2019 17:24:43 GMT -5
petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there.
Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label.
Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar.
Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to
Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works.
Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345
Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5