Today's word is: communication

That's my wife. She'll always try to spin it back to something I've done (or haven't done) sometimes years ago to give her justification for her actions. Sometimes her reasoning is so irrelevant to what I'm trying to talk to her about that I don't even know how to respond. I just stand there with my mouth open for about a minute and then blurt out 'WTF are talking about???'. The conversation generally goes downhill from there and nothing is accomplished, which is what she intended to happen. Now I generally just avoid any conversation of substance with her. Not great for resolving anything but it keeps my blood pressure down.