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Post by bballgirl on Jul 30, 2016 13:27:54 GMT -5
Last night I went to see the movie Bad Moms with a girlfriend. Great movie, I highly recommend it. However there was a Sexless Marriage as part of the plot. The main character played by Mila Kunais was married to a dead beat man child. Yes he had a good job and earned a living but that's all he did. She then discovers by walking in on him that he's having an online affair with another woman. They actually go to marriage counseling and Wanda Sykes is the therapist and just tells them like it is.
So my point to this post:
First and foremost, if you still love your spouse, if you are still in love with them, if you still find them attractive and can bring yourself to have sex with them. If you feel it would be helpful, go out with your spouse to this movie. Springboard off of this part of the plot. You will need to have courage to say, "Do you see how it ended up for them? Is that what you want for us? Because if things don't change why can't we just be friends?
Secondly for some of you that are too far gone, you can springboard off of the marriage counseling session with Wanda Sykes. Again you will need the courage to say, "Do you see how it ended up for them? That's what I want for us? Because I know things won't change.
If nothing else go see the movie especially if you are a mom or a dad that is very hands on with the kids because you will love it! I was screaming laughing in the theater. Talking to the refuser out loud calling him an asshole and everything else. I left and said I can see it again!
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Post by litnerd on Jul 30, 2016 18:30:18 GMT -5
I'm going to see it Monday night with my closest local friend, SIL, and H's cousin. H only goes to the theatre for certain movies anymore since he hates going out in public, so there's no way I'd get him there for a comedy.
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Post by ggold on Jul 30, 2016 18:31:54 GMT -5
I have to see this movie!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2016 22:03:55 GMT -5
We were going to see Jason Bourne next weekend, but I may have to rethink that decision now. We haven't had a frank discussion about our relationship in a while, and I feel one is looming.
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