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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2016 18:49:41 GMT -5
I have been sharing my situation with more friends recently. They have been so supportive. I just wanted to share what a friend of mine said to me today after telling him more about what is going on with my marriage. I've known him for 42 years....we were 6 years old when we met in school. His words uplifted me today. And I truly needed it. "my thoughts are with you...I always find situations like this so sad because I feel like one in the couple gives up too easily...in this case, it's "H"....you are a dynamic, vivacious, desirable woman...for him to not see that or want to partake in it, it's truly his loss...and this is a gay man speaking! lol"LOVE my friend!! <3 Hah fookin' aye yes! When you initiate a divorce, preachers and newlyweds say oh you just gave up! Pah phooey they know nothing. Your avoidant emotionally retarded spouse gave up on the marriage. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2016 20:29:35 GMT -5
It took me a long time to start telling people, but when I finally did, it helped enormously. There was such relief in not keeping such a huge secret and I didn't have to pretend that everything was fine with my marriage. It helped me to tell my story - dragging that dark part of my life out into the light was the beginning of being able to face the truth about my marriage.
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