What is this sorcery?

TheBumble Junior Member Posts: 97 Age Range: 51-55	What is this sorcery? Apr 5, 2016 5:08:19 GMT -5 tamara68 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TheBumble on Apr 5, 2016 5:08:19 GMT -5 Thanks for that, tamara

misssunnybunny Senior Members Posts: 1,613 Age Range: 51-55	What is this sorcery? Apr 6, 2016 15:28:12 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by misssunnybunny on Apr 6, 2016 15:28:12 GMT -5 Hey there. Checking in as it is getting closer to the weekend. How are you doing?
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What is this sorcery? Apr 9, 2016 9:24:23 GMT -5 via mobile

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Apr 4, 2016 2:37:26 GMT -5 TheBumble said:

So......after 8 years of white-out SM, and probably the same number of 'technically' sexless before that, along with all the inherent abuses of self-esteem, self-trust, sleep deprivation, weeks' worth of hours spent reading about codependence and trauma bonds and all this shit......seeing my kids drift away as I helplessly foundered in my misery.......I am ready to go.

THIS coming weekend is what I am aiming for. It's the first time I have been able to say to myself something as daring as "this weekend". It would precede a week of spring break where both of us could deal with the shock without having to worry about work. I could move into the place that is waiting for me, start to get my routine down, etc etc etc.

And YET.......despite all I have been through (and I haven't even detailed it in any way NEAR as dark as it got for me)......a little voice in the back of my head is saying, "You won't do it. You'll cave again. You don't have the balls to do it."

WTF, people?? This is MY brain!! How can it be at odds with my deepest desire??!! FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHK

Still have plans to claim your freedom this weekend? Sending you strength if you are.

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	What is this sorcery? Apr 9, 2016 9:42:18 GMT -5 greatcoastal and misssunnybunny like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Apr 9, 2016 9:42:18 GMT -5 Just thinking about you this morning - I remember how anxious I got as my chosen time for "The Talk" approached. Deep breaths, my friend!

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What is this sorcery? Apr 10, 2016 18:29:27 GMT -5 via mobile greatcoastal likes this

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Talk to a lawer first. Aside from the obvious fact that you have to know what you are doing legally, nothing makes an endeavor feel more real, like the ball is finally rolling, than when lawyers get involved.

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