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Post by Caris on Jul 16, 2016 8:31:05 GMT -5
Well I agree with 95%. There are men who are willing, looking even to be in a committed relationship. Yes you will find trolls here there and everywhere. That is the nature of life. Please do not group all of us together. You are right do not settle. But this is where the communication comes in. This is were you apply what worked and didn't. This is where you show your growth. Thank you for the wise words. I hope I didn't offend anyone with that EP men statement, That's right there are trolls everywhere and 95% of my experience with men and women was what I consider friendship so I wasn't making a blanket statement just that it exists. Actually I'm thankful it existed there because I learned even from the trolls. There was even one time a woman troll there, we discussed SM she was in one too, discussed diet and nutrition, then she told me she was a lesbian and wanted me to sext with her. I'm thankful to her too because on the dating website I've gotten messages from women too despite the fact my profile says woman seeking male. So I hope I didn't offend anyone I was in no way making a blanket statement and I'm thankful for EP and this forum and all of the people who are part of it. I don't see anything offensive in what you wrote, Bbgirl. I had good friends of both sexes on EP, but the truth is that EP was full of perverts and the unscrupulous, and I won't be apologizing for saying that. It's a known fact by the people who were there. I learned more about men (and women) on EP than I'd learnt in my whole life before EP. It was a real eye-opener. Still, it's positives outweighed it's negatives for me, but unfortunately that started to reverse and many good people left. The Internet is full of trolls and fakes, so no need to apologize.
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Post by Isabellas39 on Jul 16, 2016 11:42:10 GMT -5
PBG,I agree that you should definitely leave this guy behind ..
Bball, I love the way you think ! Most of your responses I read and think this is a woman that truly knows herself, and her worth..
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Post by bballgirl on Jul 16, 2016 14:20:12 GMT -5
PBG,I agree that you should definitely leave this guy behind .. Bball, I love the way you think ! Most of your responses I read and think this is a woman that truly knows herself, and her worth.. Thank you for those kind words Isabella. I think I do! Time will tell but I believe in having guidelines, expectations, requirements for the people we allow to come into our lives. I'm a pretty open, free spirited person but I wasted too many years on someone that wasn't right for me and very selfish as well so I'll be damned if I tolerate incompatibility, selfishness, or anything else that I deem unacceptable in my life. Hugs to you and thanks again!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2016 9:59:46 GMT -5
PBG,I agree that you should definitely leave this guy behind .. Bball, I love the way you think ! Most of your responses I read and think this is a woman that truly knows herself, and her worth.. This! Isabella said exactly what I'm thinking. bballgirl, I think you should write a book for women.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2016 10:04:41 GMT -5
PBG,I agree that you should definitely leave this guy behind .. Bball, I love the way you think ! Most of your responses I read and think this is a woman that truly knows herself, and her worth.. This! Isabella said exactly what I'm thinking. bballgirl, I think you should write a book for women. I think she should write a book for MEN!
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Post by Pinkberry on Jul 19, 2016 14:48:32 GMT -5
Communication is important in any relationship, but let's not fool ourselves. Communication is not a cure for trolls. People, including many refusers, are huge liars and they know what to say and how to act to get what they want. It is easy to get caught up in that, ILIASM past or not.
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