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Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Paradise, spoiled... Jun 23, 2016 17:47:24 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Jun 23, 2016 17:47:24 GMT -5 Did your current form heap burning coals on his head? Are you looking especially svelte since you dumped him? Does he miss you?

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Paradise, spoiled... Jun 23, 2016 18:19:07 GMT -5

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Jun 23, 2016 18:09:56 GMT -5 Fiery said:

Well @creelunion , since I separated, I have run several half-marathons and my first full marathon, I do yoga regularly, and of course I look much better than before. Some would say I look quite Ok.

I think he was surprised to see me, just as much as I was.

I don't think he misses me, as in "missing" me.
I think he resents that I left him.

Ouch! I'm sure it burned.

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Paradise, spoiled... Jun 25, 2016 11:27:13 GMT -5 Fiery likes this

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I can totally relate to this. If my STBX showed up on my favorite trail (or any trail I run honestly), it would bug the crap out of me. The trail is my escape and like you, running jump started my healing process. It was the only thing that was "mine" for a long time and any invasion of it by my least favorite human would make me both angry and creeped out.

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