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Post by lonelywifedeeanna on Nov 28, 2024 12:19:08 GMT -5
I posted here a few times just trying to come to terms w my sexless marriage.
He was acting odd around his phone recently. I waited until he was at work and opened his iPad. You can recover deleted texts. (Top left corner ‘Edit’, ‘Show Recently Deleted’ and it’ll show you all deleted texts from the last 30 days)
He’s been sleeping with a coworker from his last job (2021). We have Life 360 on our phones and he’s super transparent about where he’s going and with whom. But I guess he’s been meeting her in parking lots of fast food restaurants during his 30 min lunches.
The things I read in those texts were absolutely everything I wanted him to be doing with ME. She is much older. Not in good shape, looks like a saggytitted Grandma Troll. SO gross. I don’t get it.
I am all at once devastated and set free. I know it sounds so dumb but I had NO idea. Because he has no real free time or money I don’t know about. I thought at most it was only fans or the like.
I’ve spent the last 6 years in counseling bettering myself. I KNOW I can live a better life without him. I just need to figure out my strategies now.
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Post by greatcoastal on Nov 28, 2024 13:51:46 GMT -5
That's a huge bomb to have dropped on you !! It makes me really angry to see others treated that way!
Devastated and set free..... Now that's a healthy attitude !! Move forward to a new beginning!
Much older, not in good shape, etc... No it doesn't make sense does it? What will make sense is when you find a guy who you desire and he craves you back and you have a new beginning!
Be good to yourself, and be careful out there. Find a balance of guarding your heart while taking a risk and being vulnerable at the same time. A difficult task but the rewards are so well worth it!
Anytime you have the urge to return to a harmful environment,
keep in mind the damage it had on your sanity and
the duration of time it took to regain it!
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Post by ironhamster on Nov 29, 2024 11:23:17 GMT -5
Ouch. It's better to know where you stand, which ever way you plot your course going forward.
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Post by Apocrypha on Nov 29, 2024 19:40:18 GMT -5
Oof! Sorry. Happened to me as well. A regret that is that I not split soon after that discovery.
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