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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 23, 2024 6:59:22 GMT -5
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 24, 2024 6:45:45 GMT -5
I think this is some highly relivant advice. It didn't occur to me on my many 1st meets that I was potentially shooting myself in the foot. But in my defense I usually didn't think in terms of sex at a fist meet. If the chemistry is there then I am going to be planning a stragedy for working her into my bed, but meetup sex wasn't on my mind. Just as this good doctor is stating about most women. Sex with someone you have meet less than aan hour ago hasn't been part of my game plan. Perhaps if I ever get another opportunity to have a meet and greet I will be thinking of that M&G as having the potential to become sexual much sooner than I expected.
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Post by Missingout on Jun 24, 2024 17:43:04 GMT -5
I think this is some highly relivant advice. It didn't occur to me on my many 1st meets that I was potentially shooting myself in the foot. But in my defense I usually didn't think in terms of sex at a fist meet. If the chemistry is there then I am going to be planning a stragedy for working her into my bed, but meetup sex wasn't on my mind. Just as this good doctor is stating about most women. Sex with someone you have meet less than aan hour ago hasn't been part of my game plan. Perhaps if I ever get another opportunity to have a meet and greet I will be thinking of that M&G as having the potential to become sexual much sooner than I expected. |
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Post by Missingout on Jun 24, 2024 17:44:48 GMT -5
Sorry what I meant to say was
What else is there after a fist meet🤣
Sorry I am not a spelling monger but this had me rolling. Thank you sir
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 24, 2024 18:54:14 GMT -5
Sorry what I meant to say was What else is there after a fist meet🤣 Sorry I am not a spelling monger but this had me rolling. Thank you sir Whoops, fist meet,....my bad. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 24, 2024 20:00:13 GMT -5
I think this is some highly relivant advice. It didn't occur to me on my many 1st meets that I was potentially shooting myself in the foot. But in my defense I usually didn't think in terms of sex at a fist meet. If the chemistry is there then I am going to be planning a stragedy for working her into my bed, but meetup sex wasn't on my mind. Just as this good doctor is stating about most women. Sex with someone you have meet less than aan hour ago hasn't been part of my game plan. Perhaps if I ever get another opportunity to have a meet and greet I will be thinking of that M&G as having the potential to become sexual much sooner than I expected. Agreed! However if you continue to " meet in the middle", coffee dates, or ,in my case, dance lessons-dance groups- dance studios, you're setting yourself up for " friend zone". Constant ,daily, texting will keep you in the friend zone, especially with women who claim " I have a boyfriend" but certainly thrive off of your attention! And want you as another orbiter. Overcome the fear of rejection, deal with the rejection and start initiating 'adult' plans for one on one time at her place or preferably yours!! My experience has been women in their 60's and beyond who only want the superficial friend zone only and are happy with their girlfriends, social activities, taking care of their elderly parents, grandkids, and cats!! |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 25, 2024 6:53:21 GMT -5
Agreed! However if you continue to " meet in the middle", coffee dates, or ,in my case, dance lessons-dance groups- dance studios, you're setting yourself up for " friend zone". Constant ,daily, texting will keep you in the friend zone, especially with women who claim " I have a boyfriend" but certainly thrive off of your attention! And want you as another orbiter. Overcome the fear of rejection, deal with the rejection and start initiating 'adult' plans for one on one time at her place or preferably yours!! My experience has been women in their 60's and beyond who only want the superficial friend zone only and are happy with their girlfriends, social activities, taking care of their elderly parents, grandkids, and cats!! Now you are getting to the heart of the matter with women of a certain age. For you that age is 60. For me it is 70. I say this because I have had pretty fair luck bedding ladies in their 60's, but not so much since I tried staying on my age demographic. I posted a little while back that I am going to try moving my age criteria down about 10 years. I don't know whether I will have any success as I haven't tried the water in the younger dating pool as yet. But I am headed in that direction. I suggest you consider doing the same. If your efforts with the 60's ladies is coming up a dry well then perhaps you should wade into the 50's section of the pool. That opens up a whole new generation of ladies who may still find the prospect of intimacy agreeable. |
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Post by Missingout on Jun 25, 2024 14:47:28 GMT -5
Agreed! However if you continue to " meet in the middle", coffee dates, or ,in my case, dance lessons-dance groups- dance studios, you're setting yourself up for " friend zone". Constant ,daily, texting will keep you in the friend zone, especially with women who claim " I have a boyfriend" but certainly thrive off of your attention! And want you as another orbiter. Overcome the fear of rejection, deal with the rejection and start initiating 'adult' plans for one on one time at her place or preferably yours!! My experience has been women in their 60's and beyond who only want the superficial friend zone only and are happy with their girlfriends, social activities, taking care of their elderly parents, grandkids, and cats!! Now you are getting to the heart of the matter when it women of a certain age. For you that age is 60. For me it is 70. I say this because i have had pretty fair luck bedding ladies in their 60's, but not so much since I tried staying on my age demographic. I posted a little while back that I am going to try moving my age criteria down about 10 years. I don't know whether I will have any success as I haven't tried the water in the younger dating pool as yet. But I am headed in that direction. I suggest you consider doing the same. If your efforts with the 60's ladies is coming up a dry well then perhaps you should wade into the 50's section of the pool. That opens up a whole new generation of ladies who may still find the prospect of intimacy agreeable. Yes please do this and report back... There are woman out there that like older gentleman like yourselves. Don't know what it is or why but I see it happening. Happy hunting😉 |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 26, 2024 7:51:56 GMT -5
Yes please do this and report back... There are woman out there that like older gentleman like yourselves. Don't know what it is or why but I see it happening. Happy hunting😉 I will of course keep the forum up dated if there is anything worth reporting. I am going to initially just rely on my "hustle" skills in everyday life. This means hoping to run across an interestig female in the grocery store or perhaps one dining alone who might be exhibiting body language that says she might like some company. If she is working the room with her eyes and I find her attractive then I might ask if I can join her for a meal . If she says no then I will dine alone. Same at a grocery. If a woman seems meetable, then I am apt to try an initiate a conversation. If she keeps her answers short or doesn't seem interested in my friendly overature then it's back to just shopping. I am going to try and avoid dating apps as I have found them rife with false promises and generally a poor return on the monetary investment. But if I succeed in getting my oil changed I will let you know. |
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