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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 13, 2024 19:56:16 GMT -5
The way family courts operate is a crime against humanity.
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Missingout
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Post by Missingout on Jun 14, 2024 4:51:29 GMT -5
Yep I felt this when I was looking at all the paperwork for the dissolution paperwork even. All about money and the courts knowing amount of money that is in the game they play. Should of went to school to be a lawyer. I wouldn't be able to sleep at night tho.🤣
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 18, 2024 7:20:41 GMT -5
Yep I felt this when I was looking at all the paperwork for the dissolution paperwork even. All about money and the courts knowing amount of money that is in the game they play. Should of went to school to be a lawyer. I wouldn't be able to sleep at night tho.🤣 Just hope you don't end up with an ex like mine. One who went through 5 attorneys because she was hell bent on "being in control" and attorney after attorney gladly taking her "our" money only to have to tell her " a judge is not going to rule in your favor". |
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Post by toughtiger on Jun 18, 2024 18:39:21 GMT -5
Yep I felt this when I was looking at all the paperwork for the dissolution paperwork even. All about money and the courts knowing amount of money that is in the game they play. Should of went to school to be a lawyer. I wouldn't be able to sleep at night tho.🤣 Just hope you don't end up with an ex like mine. One who went through 5 attorneys because she was hell bent on "being in control" and attorney after attorney gladly taking her "our" money only to have to tell her " a judge is not going to rule in your favor". had so many friends go through this new lawyer and start all over etc. wasted so much money on legal help would have been better if they mediated and settled. |
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Post by baza on Jul 2, 2024 6:15:18 GMT -5
I think one is better to mediate / negotiate the end of a marriage if that is at all possible (and it is NOT always possible)
If you get 2 lawyers colluding with each other to rip off both spouses such as this podcaster "Paul Elam" claims so you really need to do your homework on exactly who you are going to engage to act for you.
Google could be your friend in this search.
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Post by mirrororchid on Jul 3, 2024 4:21:04 GMT -5
A six year old post by "Dan" spoke of "Certified Divorce Financial Analysts" to get much of the contention out of the way. iliasm.org/post/93919/threadHe said his CDFA offered a free consultation, just like the lawyers we're told to look up. This could save a lot of questions before getting that first consultation with the lawyer. Don't miss Baza's comments about "Binding Financial Agreement". The inventory of assets can also be the contents of a will, which every couple should have, regardless of stability or contentment. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jul 6, 2024 20:19:30 GMT -5
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Post by ironhamster on Jul 21, 2024 0:26:45 GMT -5
Here is one right you have that they won't tell you. Ex Post Facto. After the fact. Demand that the marriage license was signed in the year xxxx and only laws in affect at the time of that signing can be in effect.
Of course, given what we have seen in lawfare this year, the US Constitution might be null and void regarding this long held principle.
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Post by greatcoastal on Jul 21, 2024 6:46:02 GMT -5
Here is one right you have that they won't tell you. Ex Post Facto. After the fact. Demand that the marriage license was signed in the year xxxx and only laws in affect at the time of that signing can be in effect. Of course, given what we have seen in lawfare this year, the US Constitution might be null and void regarding this long held principle. My divorce was 6 yrs. ago, so it's been a while...however I do remember that the laws where changing in the favor of men/fathers. The pendulum had swung so far to the favor of mothers/women that it's slowly coming back. Especially in this day and age of women's income being equal or in many cases succeeding the mans. ( my case) I vaguely remember that the law ( state of Florida) was getting ready to change in the next year of my divorce that you would need to be married 18,or 20? years in order to receive full alimony. 7-8 years a small , low% ,partial alimony. 1-3 yrs, no alimony. Studies showing the decline in marriages and that the average length of a first marriages is 8 yrs. |
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Post by mirrororchid on Aug 20, 2024 6:14:44 GMT -5
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