Post by mirrororchid on Jan 15, 2024 8:11:49 GMT -5
Sometimes, it can help to put a marker down.
You won't do it for you, but you'll do it if others are watching.
Peer pressure can be your friend (and your enemy! Caveat emptor!)
We got some ILIASM members who're in their sexless marriages, mean to change them, but are a bit unfocused on what or when. It can be difficult to read the self-torment and perhaps a nudge towards decision may be of use.
Want to put it on the record?
Throw the gauntlet?
Burn the bridge behind you?
Here's the place.
I'll replace fictional examples with real members' goals if any want to lay it on the line.
You won't do it for you, but you'll do it if others are watching.
Peer pressure can be your friend (and your enemy! Caveat emptor!)
We got some ILIASM members who're in their sexless marriages, mean to change them, but are a bit unfocused on what or when. It can be difficult to read the self-torment and perhaps a nudge towards decision may be of use.
Want to put it on the record?
Throw the gauntlet?
Burn the bridge behind you?
Here's the place.
I'll replace fictional examples with real members' goals if any want to lay it on the line.
| ILIASM Member | Goal | Date | Comments | |
| @13x | "The Talk" | March 2024 | Deadline to use for "The Talk" decision ahead | |
| @8th Letter | file for divorce | June 2024 | lawyer consulted, draft agreement written. | |
| @sourprune Erica | find a place to stay | November 2023 | date missed, new deadline forthcoming | |
| sweetplumeria |  | ~2016 | "Can we go back in time? I want to do this when I joined EP all blissfully stupid about my reality." | |
| @waterdog | "The Talk" | September 2024 | "College Plan" pending |
