kevinp
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Age Range: 66-70
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Post by kevinp on May 31, 2024 16:28:29 GMT -5
My feelings of inadequacy, however real or imagined, would be a big stumbling block. I have been in the situation where it wasn't stiffening for anybody. That's certainly not what a woman in need of stiff companionship wants. A long black beats a flat white any day. Maybe cialis to the rescue. Sporting the promise of an adequate boner, one might launch into the task with more confidence.
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Post by worksforme2 on May 31, 2024 18:00:38 GMT -5
My feelings of inadequacy, however real or imagined, would be a big stumbling block. I have been in the situation where it wasn't stiffening for anybody. That's certainly not what a woman in need of stiff companionship wants. A long black beats a flat white any day. Maybe cialis to the rescue. Sporting the promise of an adequate boner, one might launch into the task with more confidence. It's good to see another senior male still looking to please a woman. We are in the same boat. Given your age bracket I am somewhat skeptical of Cialis doing the job for you. This is based on my own experience so, ymmv. Perhaps if the erection issue is something recent pills might do it. I just have my doubts. But all is not lost if they do not work , or work as well as you would like. A couple of us here, including me have needed to rely on injections of TriMix. As a backup plan I suggest you read up on it. If the medical profession in your neck of the woods is like mine here, it will take some time to get the wheels rolling to get that prescription. In the meantime, you could begin courting a new partner. At our age finding a woman still interested in intimacy is no easy task. Becoming comfortable with each other to the point of intimacy will also probably take some time. |
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kevinp
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sex where R U
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Age Range: 66-70
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Post by kevinp on Jun 2, 2024 4:51:09 GMT -5
I hear you. Thankfully I have no permanent debilitating ED as some my age do. My lack of response is somewhat due to the apathetic attitude of said wife, and the long time since I had any intercourse at all. This is an emotional state that holds me back from pursuing another FWB woman. 20 years ago I did it with varying success. Once I was familiar and comfortable with a woman I saw several times, I was doing just fine. One night stands however, and I did try a few, thanks to adult friendfinder for one, I was embarassingly inadequate. Given 20 years and now being 70, I feel so much more inadequate as a result. Cialis may not work of course. I'd love to have it work out for me. It would be such a confidence boost that I'm sure I could go on to please a lady my age who wants a sexual FWB.
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Post by mirrororchid on Jun 3, 2024 4:04:08 GMT -5
When it comes to potency, one question I hear asked is whether it performs while playing solitaire. That helps isolate physiological capability from nervousness.
If physical capability is amiss, hormonal replacement may be called for. Maybe nutritional issues should be rectified (atherosclerosis doesn't just clog veins in the heart).
If it is all psychological, perhaps lowering of expectations is helpful. Pleasure provided, just not missionary style (or doggie/reverse cowgirl, Catherine wheel, etc)
If in the midst of "everything but", someone comes out to play, can certainly indulge, with no expectation of busting the tape at the finish line. Just trying the 5k for the fun of it. Shinsplints are to be expected.
While some ladies may prefer to engage every portion of the experience, some will appreciate the de-emphasis and enthusiasm for whatever does work.
If all of this is old hat, consider it a post for elder ILIASM newcomers.
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