miestas
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Post by miestas on Dec 2, 2023 5:00:01 GMT -5
Tonight I found out something that has actually made me feel a great deal better. I had always heard the old saw that your biggest sex organ is your brain, and have always thought that was kind of a condescending statement for those of us men with ED. Sort of like saying, “You just don’t want it enough.”
However…tonight a woman flirted outrageously and very overtly with me. We were all in line at our organization’s buffet style pot luck dinner. My wife did not attend. I will preface this by saying the woman had been drinking a bit beforehand. She was exactly my “type” physically, being a soft, round pear with a big bottom. She placed her hand on my arm and squeezed a little while she “talked close”. Well, she went so far as to turn around and press that bottom against my zipper while we were standing in line, and then wiggled it back and forth a little while pretending to reach for a plate. I got the biggest hard-on I have had in years. Absolutely rock-freaking-hard. Surprised the hell out of me, and I felt my whole face heat up. I am sure she felt it, because she gave me that little smile over her shoulder and shoved backwards. Now, I know she was just drunk and teasing without any expectation of follow-through because that’s her rep. But I was absolutely not offended, because that hard-on didn’t recede for a good 10 minutes. I was just so happy that I didn’t need to have “better sex through chemistry”. Apparently all I needed was a woman to actually display sexual interest in a very overt way.
I know it is stupid, and may be showing that I am a pig, but knowing that I can respond that strongly in a very spontaneous setting makes me think that my problem may be more mental than physical. Whatever. I’m so happy I can’t sleep.
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Missingout
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Post by Missingout on Dec 2, 2023 5:55:29 GMT -5
Absolutely 100 % truth. Just need a partner that shows some interest in you and that’s all it takes. We are simple animals. Feed and fuck us and we will ride and die with ya.😂
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Post by toughtiger on Dec 6, 2023 20:36:35 GMT -5
So true for both sexes..... have someone appreciate you and it ignites something ...... i had an online friend that made me feel sexy and fun and i was wet and wanting to go ... spouse could zap it out of me in an instant just being HIM... maybe spouse Ed was a blessing.
It probably was a great feeling that your body works fine in the right atmosphere.
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Post by sweetplumeria on Dec 7, 2023 8:14:54 GMT -5
Miestas, I am so curious if you considered outsourcing with this woman? Is she too close to your circles? Or just perfectly peripheral enough to observe wether she can be trusted to pursue? Obviously, she has given you an idea that she is interested in you. Obviously if you met for drinks or had a leisurely walk after one of these drinking occasions you might find out which direction it might take.
Just food for thought and never forget the trusted Baza advice about a lawyer.
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miestas
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Post by miestas on Dec 7, 2023 18:25:38 GMT -5
Miestas, I am so curious if you considered outsourcing with this woman? Is she too close to your circles? Or just perfectly peripheral enough to observe wether she can be trusted to pursue? Obviously, she has given you an idea that she is interested in you. Obviously if you met for drinks or had a leisurely walk after one of these drinking occasions you might find out which direction it might take. Just food for thought and never forget the trusted Baza advice about a lawyer. She is known as the woman who gets drunk and then likes to c**k-tease. Not the type for me even if she was really interested. But I appreciate the thought
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Post by sweetplumeria on Dec 8, 2023 7:01:08 GMT -5
"She is known as the woman who gets drunk and then likes to c**k-tease. Not the type for me even if she was really interested."
lol, how wildly inappropriate is it to say enjoy the tease?
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Post by worksforme2 on Dec 8, 2023 8:59:37 GMT -5
Miestas, I am so curious if you considered outsourcing with this woman? Is she too close to your circles? Or just perfectly peripheral enough to observe wether she can be trusted to pursue? Obviously, she has given you an idea that she is interested in you. Obviously if you met for drinks or had a leisurely walk after one of these drinking occasions you might find out which direction it might take. Just food for thought and never forget the trusted Baza advice about a lawyer. She is known as the woman who gets drunk and then likes to c**k-tease. Not the type for me even if she was really interested. But I appreciate the thought Nevertheless, if she behaves wantonly in the future, like grinding her a** on your crotch, you should grind your erection into her buttom. Give her a taste of what teasing is like from the male perspective.
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Missingout
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Post by Missingout on Dec 8, 2023 9:39:04 GMT -5
"She is known as the woman who gets drunk and then likes to c**k-tease. Not the type for me even if she was really interested." lol, how wildly inappropriate is it to say enjoy the tease? Like we already don't get that at home... 🤪
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miestas
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Post by miestas on Dec 8, 2023 10:22:17 GMT -5
"She is known as the woman who gets drunk and then likes to c**k-tease. Not the type for me even if she was really interested." lol, how wildly inappropriate is it to say enjoy the tease? As missingout said, I get enough of that at home. I expected that woman to fall asleep at any moment.
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Post by greatcoastal on Dec 8, 2023 10:40:24 GMT -5
"She is known as the woman who gets drunk and then likes to c**k-tease. Not the type for me even if she was really interested." lol, how wildly inappropriate is it to say enjoy the tease? As missingout said, I get enough of that at home. I expected that woman to fall asleep at any moment. Ms. C**k -tease,sounds like more bread crumbing. People ( women) wanting attention. Relies on Alcohol, teasing, bread crumbing.....all red flags. However...I 100% understand the 'high' from a tease, after decades of 0%!
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kevinp
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Post by kevinp on Apr 25, 2024 16:40:55 GMT -5
This 'come onto me' scenario happened to me after 4 years of the Wife's post-op issues and zero sex. A woman I knew quite well, came to stay with us. Her husband kicked her out for adultery. She was ultra friendly with me and I could feel the sexual tension. I used to pick her up at the airport when she came to town to stayed with us now and then. She talked sex all the time, told me everything she had done to get it off her chest and to probably brag a bit. We parked the car and I was feeling the stirring in my jeans and tried to hide it. In the heat of the moment we both got at it, and had sex in the car. That started an affair with her when she stayed for months at our place. So, had she been some anonymous person I may not have had the opportunity to go to her place and get it happening, but this was too convenient to resist. We stopped and I confessed a while later, and my wife, as upset as she was, forgave me and after some time of discussion, she actually let me try again. So I did, but that ended and it's been years. Now I'm 70. How on earth to get back into that?
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Post by ironhamster on Apr 27, 2024 12:03:08 GMT -5
OMFG miestas! That's quite a discovery. Intriguing. Yes, that ED thing can definitely be in the head. Of course, it can be all sorts of other things, too. I imagine a psychological ED problem would be difficult to treat, except that you just found a therapy that works well for you. I hope we can all be so fortunate.
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Post by mirrororchid on Apr 29, 2024 5:29:31 GMT -5
That started an affair with her when she stayed for months at our place. ...my wife, as upset as she was, forgave me and after some time of discussion, she actually let me try again. So I did, but that ended and it's been years. Now I'm 70. How on earth to get back into that? What opportunities are there? Is your setting conducive? Are you in a senior community where feisty 60-somethings might take you up on an offer? Worksforme2 has serious trouble cuz he's stuck in a place where no one is nearby
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kevinp
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Post by kevinp on May 9, 2024 4:23:31 GMT -5
That started an affair with her when she stayed for months at our place. ...my wife, as upset as she was, forgave me and after some time of discussion, she actually let me try again. So I did, but that ended and it's been years. Now I'm 70. How on earth to get back into that? What opportunities are there? Is your setting conducive? Are you in a senior community where feisty 60-somethings might take you up on an offer? Worksforme2 has serious trouble cuz he's stuck in a place where no one is nearby I'm in a gated community and there are quite a few single oldies. The suburb has a growing list of lifestyle communities for over 60's. One woman, serving coffees, when asked for a 'long black' remarked, "It's been years since I've had one of those" Inferring a genorously proportioned black man. Some chuckled. They're out there.
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Post by mirrororchid on May 10, 2024 5:50:35 GMT -5
What opportunities are there? Is your setting conducive? Are you in a senior community where feisty 60-somethings might take you up on an offer? Worksforme2 has serious trouble cuz he's stuck in a place where no one is nearby I'm in a gated community and there are quite a few single oldies. The suburb has a growing list of lifestyle communities for over 60's. One woman, serving coffees, when asked for a 'long black' remarked, "It's been years since I've had one of those" Inferring a generously proportioned black man. Some chuckled. They're out there. A serious problem is finding one like that who would be okay with a married man. Stacked obstacles. You have more reason to "why chase" than many here. Funny thing is, a lot of old women don't want to marry for fear of being a caretaker, but they wouldn't knocks boots with a married man who runs no risk of proposing; hussy, yes, "homewrecker", no. You have a rougher row to hoe than most, I could easily end up where you are. I better plan ahead. Hm. seniorpolyamory.com/I bet it's pretty threadbare, bu8t maybe in 15 years?
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