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Post by mirrororchid on Aug 30, 2023 20:47:01 GMT -5
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Post by toughtiger on Sept 5, 2023 22:26:09 GMT -5
I wish this was more accepted............. especially for those of us whom spouses have decided their sex life is over...
I know my friend is happier just talking to me we both give each other ideas on how to deal with MY zero sex and HIS once in a blue moon starfish experience.
Our spouses might be just angry and feel (at this point only) emotionally cheated on .........when in fact being happier has made me more reasonable and less angry about other things and even little annoyances.
If i met their sex starved spouse and we helped each other out had a good friendship etc .....
I do not want to be her competition i do not need families to be upset just maybe a weekly meeting like racquetball....
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Post by worksforme2 on Sept 9, 2023 20:39:33 GMT -5
toughtiger....there are sites dedicated to casual sex and having a FWB. Ashlee Madison is probably the most well known. Adult friend Finder, Match.com and POF are also sites you might consider. I didn't see the specific site for POF that is for extra martial relationships, but mirrororchid was successful there. You might also consider looking specifically for polyamourous sites. The closer you live to aa large metropolitan city the better your odds I should think.
EDIT: Actually mirrororchid has corrected me. He was on OKCupid when seeking another partner.
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Post by toughtiger on Sept 9, 2023 21:41:51 GMT -5
I found a male friend who like me is living in a sex starved marriage .... we just live a great distance away.
I am not using some site as some on even general sites if they chat you up are incredibly pervy.
I know local a few husbands whose wife shut them down i think it would be a good thing for both to have a casual thing.
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Post by ironhamster on Sept 9, 2023 22:44:16 GMT -5
I found a male friend who like me is living in a sex starved marriage .... we just live a great distance away. I am not using some site as some on even general sites if they chat you up are incredibly pervy. I know local a few husbands whose wife shut them down i think it would be a good thing for both to have a casual thing. It may be fun trying to find a way to be with your paramour to be. In my case, I traveled to an event my wife had no interest in, and she set up a business trip for that time. We met in person for the first time, bridging a two thousand mile gap, and figured out ways to meet monthly after that, with great anticipation on both our parts. I will say, though, that if our first meeting had not been so mind bendingly amazing, I probably would have returned to my failed marriage with my tail between my legs and given up on any level of future happiness, which would have been a mistake. |
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Post by mirrororchid on Sept 18, 2023 6:43:15 GMT -5
... I didn't see the specific site for POF that is for extra martial relationships, but mirrororchid was successful there. ... It was actually OKcupid. It has filters where you can require matches to be married. Unmarried people don't even see your profile, in theory. I wasn't on it long before my wife reset. Guys don't really get messaged, we have to approach, so a lady is much better equipped to verify the filter's stringency. Plenty of Fish asks if you are married and if you say "Yes" it redirects you to Ashley Madison! Great way to get your customers hooked up with married liars, if you ask me. toughtiger If ever you do try online, some ladies bury in their profile some instructions to put a code word in their subject line of their messages. Add in what constitutes pervy behavior and you should find the experience more useful. |
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