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Post by heelots on Sept 20, 2023 18:46:02 GMT -5
I have a low body count of two, which is pretty embarrassing for a 50 something man,and was due to a lack of success with dating. Both women I've slept with (my wife included), were virgins when we met. I think I would be a bit intimidated if I met someone with a high body count. Not every guy has a high body count, everyone is different. It isn't the number of women you slept with, but rather the effort you put into satisfying them sexually and if you accomplished your goal. Which in the end is always a result of free and open communication between you and her. Don't overthink it. It all about communication.
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Post by greatcoastal on Oct 29, 2023 7:11:25 GMT -5
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Post by mirrororchid on Oct 31, 2023 5:50:04 GMT -5
What is "high"? I dated my first girlfriend for two years. If I did that repeatedly, I'd have a body count of 18.
Is two years a fling? What is "long term"?
What is "commitment". Is a two year expiration date a red flag on a guy? Is a two year intimate relationship worthwhile? Or should be declined?
Is a widow fresh out of a thirty year marriage with a previous body count of 200 still a "ho"?
The red pill community is rife with oversimplification. Men like simplicity. It can lead us into delusion and overconfidence. A simple world is comforting at the cost of competence in dealing with complexity when it inevitably conflicts with a dumbed-down world view.
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Post by greatcoastal on Oct 31, 2023 11:02:23 GMT -5
What is "high"? I dated my first girlfriend for two years. If I did that repeatedly, I'd have a body count of 18. Is two years a fling? What is "long term"? What is "commitment". Is a two year expiration date a red flag on a guy? Is a two year intimate relationship worthwhile? Or should be declined? Is a widow fresh out of a thirty year marriage with a previous body count of 200 still a "ho"? The red pill community is rife with oversimplification. Men like simplicity. It can lead us into delusion and overconfidence. A simple world is comforting at the cost of competence in dealing with complexity when it inevitably conflicts with a dumbed-down world view. Have you googled any of your 6 questions? ( they seem to have little to do with the last video posted) Once you watch one 1 minute short video you will see many more that address these issues. Much is based on 'statistics' ' the majority', a younger age bracket ( 18-30 yrs old) There will always be 'the exception to the rule' ---one of those are people like us who have endured decades of a sexless marriage, and tend to jump at the opportunity to feel worthy and wanted again. Meanwhile keeping our witts about us and our boundaries!
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Post by mirrororchid on Nov 1, 2023 5:45:08 GMT -5
Sum up. Coupling with high body count "ho"s (her words) ill-prepares you for "wholesome, good women".
Instead, you will mistake a less "ho"some woman for wholesome, attempt a wholesome relationship and.... fail because she is not wholesome, just slightly better.
So she's encouraging rejecting "ho"s so you can land a wholesome long-term relationship. You need practice to get beyond physical relationship into deep meaningful connection.
In our circumstances, we have many ILIASM members who did precisely that up to and including marrying virgins and ended up with relationships so wholesome they became platonic. Low body count may be an indicator of aversion to sex. This could prove ideal for the refusing husbands found by ILIASM women.
If I'm off point, hopefully the exploration has value on its own.
What's the sweet spot? Low enough that meaningful relationships are probable, high enough that you don't end up IASM. Or, is a fixation on numbers counterproductive and focusing on nurturing the wholesome relationship with the optimal level of intimacy can be executed regardless and the practice can be performed on a case by case basis.
NRE and quest for rings can produce adequate or even lively intimacy only to swing over to way-too-wholesome, as we well know.
This video addresses women with high body counts, I believe. Of interest, are there men with high body counts that end up with sexless marriages? Are they quicker to divorce or outsource?
That may be worthy of a poll.
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