fred
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Post by fred on May 19, 2023 10:59:50 GMT -5
finally got an analogy: wifie is lovely, sensitive, considerate etc. BUT zero libido; married many, many years so obviously the relationship works STILL lamenting her "condition";
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she likes to donate to red cross, jimmy fund, american heart association etc. likewise she will donate sex to me quite often donation sex is one step below starfish sex her unspoken words: "ok, go ahead if YOU want to"
just needed to vent, i feel better now
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Post by heelots on May 20, 2023 10:38:31 GMT -5
finally got an analogy: wifie is lovely, sensitive, considerate etc. BUT zero libido; married many, many years so obviously the relationship works STILL lamenting her "condition";
observation:
she likes to donate to red cross, jimmy fund, american heart association etc. likewise she will donate sex to me quite often donation sex is one step below starfish sex her unspoken words: "ok, go ahead if YOU want to"
just needed to vent, i feel better now
Sadly "ok, go ahead if you want to" is such a major hardon killer and they either don't know, don't care, or both. That same lack of interest was what finished our marriage. Once things were reduced to pity sex, or doing her duty so to speak I decided I was done. I knew if I never again brought it up she wouldn't either, and I was correct. To grovel for sex is never worth it. I will choose masturbation every time over sex with partner that has no interest in me. If one wants to be viewed as a roommate instead of a spouse, and wants to destroy their marriage I believe this is the very most effective way to do that. Kill all intimacy, affection and sex to become glorified roommates. That was what happened to our marriage. When I made her a roommate it totally changed the dynamic of our situation. The only thing positive that came out of it for me was gaining peace within after giving up on her. There were no more arguments, expectations, or ideas that I could do anything to fix things. I stopped worrying about what she thought or cared about anything. She was just a roommate I live with and her likes and dislikes are of no relevance to anything. I pleasure myself in privacy (she knows and I could care less.) It is what it is and that is all it will ever be and I am just at peace with it. I will say that getting to this place was no small task and I had to work through a lot of pain before getting here though. |
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Post by mirrororchid on May 22, 2023 5:36:54 GMT -5
Below starfish sex?
You get worse than flaccid indifference?
I hesitate to ask.
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Post by lessingham on May 24, 2023 8:48:17 GMT -5
Might as well buy a blow up doll as lie on top of a passive, zone out wife methinks
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Post by worksforme2 on May 24, 2023 9:11:29 GMT -5
Might as well buy a blow up doll as lie on top of a passive, zone out wife methinks The blowup dolls I have seen do not look very realistic, but I suppose if one was to pull the doll close in the middle of a dark night, it could transform into any woman one could imagine it to be. But for myself I think i would spend a few more dollars and get a more realistic synthetic verson with a vigina modeled after a favorite porn star, or maybe Gynath Paltro. |
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Post by lessingham on May 25, 2023 4:18:22 GMT -5
At college many years ago a friend tried a blow up doll. He said he freaked out as when he thrusted all the air was pumped into the head and hands causing weird expansions.
Slightly tempted by the several thousand dollar realistic dolls, now with AI!!! But still mega creepy
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Post by worksforme2 on May 25, 2023 7:45:03 GMT -5
At college many years ago a friend tried a blow up doll. He said he freaked out as when he thrusted all the air was pumped into the head and hands causing weird expansions. Slightly tempted by the several thousand dollar realistic dolls, now with AI!!! But still mega creepy At the risk of being repetative,....when you turn out the light and use your imagination, that doll can be any woman you can imagine. If you happen to be loyal to the monarchy, even the Queen. |
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