I realized today that I haven't really fantasized about having sex with a single co-worker since I started my job months ago. I found this quite alarming as much as I think about sex. I've thought about what a few co-workers LOOK like out of their clothing, but that's where it really stops. That got me thinking, I don't remember the last co-worker that I fantasized about having sex with. I guess the funeral home doesn't count, but even before that, I can't remember before or since. Do you think damage to your self-esteem can even impair your imagination? If it does, fuck me, we have a lot of repairing to do if we have to work on our fucking THOUGHTS about sex. Whatever...just let me keep my phone fantasy; if that loses its appeal, I'm just going to turn in my wank card and adopt twenty more cats.
I hadn't thought about this before but I haven't fantasized about a coworker in longer than I can remember. I remember I used to at some point, but I don't remember when. I don't think I've fantasized at all in quite a while. I think my mind has subconsciously accepted the fact that I'm not getting any and doesn't create unrealistic thoughts anymore.
Bits of me are dying but others are growing. One step at a time.
Post by worksforme2 on Aug 4, 2022 12:37:54 GMT -5
Looking back I don't think I ever fantasized about a co-worker. I had a career in construction so there were virtually no females in my work environment. Later when I moved into management, I didn't consider my employees as fair game, so I never thought about dipping my pen in the company ink. Way too many possible negative outcomes.
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