FWB - short term or long term fix?
Jun 9, 2022 14:40:30 GMT -5
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Post by scotinbe on Jun 9, 2022 14:40:30 GMT -5
For those who've perused my other posts - I'm a bit of a part-time secret swinger...and the simple question is; will hooking up with a FWB lady swinger "be enough", or am I setting myself up for more frustration?
Going to swingers clubs, as a man, you meet (and meat..err..) some amazing women.
It's not the first time this has happened, but again today I spent some time with a lady who very much enjoys "plurality of men" - but afterwards I've been there to give her a damned good massage, and we got talking.
Her particular fetish is - well, not exactly my thing - but "cum play". She adores making guys cum; mostly in her mouth, sometimes on her face, a bit over her body (especially "pearl necklace"), even a tiny bit in her hair - she loves it..much more than PV sex (which she does like TBH, but not the same).I'm in no place to judge - I love to please a woman - and she clearly loves being covered in cum from many men.
Apart from that, she has - quite honestly - amongst the top 10 sexiest female bums I've ever had the pleasure of...well, er..pleasuring.
Here's the thing.
I'm an experienced and talented masseur (I hate both terms - but "it is what it is"), specialising in Shiatsu style massages - but with a bit of various other styles mixed in, and with a talent for picking up on any kind of head/neck/shoulder/upper or lower back/hips/upper or lower legs or foot problems. Turn someone over - I'm instantly lost, but head to toe from the back; give me a few mins and I'll almost always find where they have problems - and from there figure out where the problems come from and then work on them. It's not a professional thing, although I had nearly 20 years experience in related activities - but they were always "for fun", even when I was employed to do so (sounds dodgier than it is..it was all very innocent!)
Anyway - after said lady had been having some fun with a bunch of guys, I stepped in to give her a "damned good massage" after things slowed down.
She was a tiny bit skeptical, but went with it. After a very few short minutes - I'd picked up on lower scapula issues both sides, which for her age/height/breast size (lovely handful and no more) - was a bit of a mystery.
I had her moaning in ecstasy a few seconds later...if anyone is an experienced masseur/masseuse - you'll know what I mean.
A random/randy bloke came by and tried to get things going "lower down" - but he quickly realised she was much more into my massage than anything carnal, and buggered off (after complimenting me on my massage skills...lol).
I found an issue with her left leg - rather bizarre thb - she's young and seems in good shape - and kinda doubting myself, I asked if she really did have these issues.
She said yes for the scapula issues and left leg...and was convinced I was a pro at massage.
I explained I wasn't, but just "good at it" and with a lot of years of experience.
I didn't have a lot of time, as I had to leave for family reasons.
I chanced my arm, and asked if she wanted a private massage session - a couple of hours of me taking care of her literally from head to toe...and she said "yes!" immediately
.
This will be the 2nd time I've hooked up with a lady swinger after a club session - purely to give a damned good massage.
We live not far from each other (10-15 mins), unlike the first lady - and the way we were talking to arrange things for our first meet, it's clear she's "up for" more than a single session.
She's probably half my age, cute as a button, great physique (top to toe...), clearly loves sex and all things sexual....
I do need to fix things with my wife - but...by God...having a young woman a few minutes from me willing to be a FWB on a regular basis, and who *actually appreciates me*....so confusing....
Maybe this situation will give me the confidence as a man to say to my wife that she needs to deal were *her* problems - and stop the unspoken assersion they're mine.
Not sure....but wtf, I could really do with a right good fuck fest...really really do with just spending some special sexual/sensual/erotic time with someone who wants to be with me.
...and if anyone knew me, that would mean me doing my best to please...but hey ho!
Yes, I could happily just spend a couple of hours once or twice a month getting this young lady naked and massaging her - with zero expectation of anything in return.
I miss physical intimacy *so much*....
Going to swingers clubs, as a man, you meet (and meat..err..) some amazing women.
It's not the first time this has happened, but again today I spent some time with a lady who very much enjoys "plurality of men" - but afterwards I've been there to give her a damned good massage, and we got talking.
Her particular fetish is - well, not exactly my thing - but "cum play". She adores making guys cum; mostly in her mouth, sometimes on her face, a bit over her body (especially "pearl necklace"), even a tiny bit in her hair - she loves it..much more than PV sex (which she does like TBH, but not the same).I'm in no place to judge - I love to please a woman - and she clearly loves being covered in cum from many men.
Apart from that, she has - quite honestly - amongst the top 10 sexiest female bums I've ever had the pleasure of...well, er..pleasuring.
Here's the thing.
I'm an experienced and talented masseur (I hate both terms - but "it is what it is"), specialising in Shiatsu style massages - but with a bit of various other styles mixed in, and with a talent for picking up on any kind of head/neck/shoulder/upper or lower back/hips/upper or lower legs or foot problems. Turn someone over - I'm instantly lost, but head to toe from the back; give me a few mins and I'll almost always find where they have problems - and from there figure out where the problems come from and then work on them. It's not a professional thing, although I had nearly 20 years experience in related activities - but they were always "for fun", even when I was employed to do so (sounds dodgier than it is..it was all very innocent!)
Anyway - after said lady had been having some fun with a bunch of guys, I stepped in to give her a "damned good massage" after things slowed down.
She was a tiny bit skeptical, but went with it. After a very few short minutes - I'd picked up on lower scapula issues both sides, which for her age/height/breast size (lovely handful and no more) - was a bit of a mystery.
I had her moaning in ecstasy a few seconds later...if anyone is an experienced masseur/masseuse - you'll know what I mean.
A random/randy bloke came by and tried to get things going "lower down" - but he quickly realised she was much more into my massage than anything carnal, and buggered off (after complimenting me on my massage skills...lol).
I found an issue with her left leg - rather bizarre thb - she's young and seems in good shape - and kinda doubting myself, I asked if she really did have these issues.
She said yes for the scapula issues and left leg...and was convinced I was a pro at massage.
I explained I wasn't, but just "good at it" and with a lot of years of experience.
I didn't have a lot of time, as I had to leave for family reasons.
I chanced my arm, and asked if she wanted a private massage session - a couple of hours of me taking care of her literally from head to toe...and she said "yes!" immediately
. This will be the 2nd time I've hooked up with a lady swinger after a club session - purely to give a damned good massage.
We live not far from each other (10-15 mins), unlike the first lady - and the way we were talking to arrange things for our first meet, it's clear she's "up for" more than a single session.
She's probably half my age, cute as a button, great physique (top to toe...), clearly loves sex and all things sexual....
I do need to fix things with my wife - but...by God...having a young woman a few minutes from me willing to be a FWB on a regular basis, and who *actually appreciates me*....so confusing....
Maybe this situation will give me the confidence as a man to say to my wife that she needs to deal were *her* problems - and stop the unspoken assersion they're mine.
Not sure....but wtf, I could really do with a right good fuck fest...really really do with just spending some special sexual/sensual/erotic time with someone who wants to be with me.
...and if anyone knew me, that would mean me doing my best to please...but hey ho!
Yes, I could happily just spend a couple of hours once or twice a month getting this young lady naked and massaging her - with zero expectation of anything in return.
I miss physical intimacy *so much*....
