People in affairs talk about their relationships

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People in affairs talk about their relationships Nov 16, 2021 19:31:57 GMT -5 jerri likes this

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Post by Handy on Nov 16, 2021 19:31:57 GMT -5

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Some code words:

Quack means they had sex with a partner.

MM marries man

DADT don't ask, don't tell

EMR extra maritial relationship

NRE new relationship energy-excitement

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Don't ask tell them you will be getting sex elsewhere. Don't seek permission! Did you get a choice?

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People in affairs talk about their relationships Nov 17, 2021 5:17:31 GMT -5

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Post by jerri on Nov 17, 2021 5:17:31 GMT -5

I was in their Pforum2 which had huge archives that I loved, and they taught me a lot! I was in a DADT open marriage and my husband wanted our open M discreet. It used to be a very active forum when it was Pforum2 this is their 4th forum. I was in there about a decade ago. There were some in a SM and there were others who were creating a SM.

MM= Married Man
BS= betrayed spouse
AP= affair partner
OP= other partner, not original poster as one would think two groups merged and some of them used AP and the other group used OP

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People in affairs talk about their relationships Nov 17, 2021 16:38:13 GMT -5

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Post by Handy on Nov 17, 2021 16:38:13 GMT -5

I followed a lady that had an AP named after a major motel/hotel chain. That might have ended 2 years ago. I think the guy was called Hilton. He had work in the lady's area but the project ended and the relationship dies out. the woman said she was dedicated to her H but needed the time with Hilton.

A few other posters just wanted the New relationship energy NRE so they frequently had new partners.

One guy posted about 2 or 3 women frequently wanting a quack with him and some of this happened around some ski area. This guy sounded like he was over worked sexually. Some problem considering some of the people on ILIASM haven't had good sex for years.

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People in affairs talk about their relationships

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