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unmatched Senior Members It is what we don't do that we come to regret the most. Posts: 1,472 Age Range: 41-45	Its the long term effects.... Jun 3, 2016 9:18:44 GMT -5 JMX, thefullmoon, and 5 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by unmatched on Jun 3, 2016 9:18:44 GMT -5 So if you have no kids, no sex and don't talk to each other, do you need to stay?

DryCreek Senior Members Life’s too short to live without passion! Posts: 3,519 Age Range: 51-55	Its the long term effects.... Jun 3, 2016 13:05:06 GMT -5 greatcoastal, bballgirl, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by DryCreek on Jun 3, 2016 13:05:06 GMT -5 Jun 3, 2016 9:18:44 GMT -5 unmatched said: So if you have no kids, no sex and don't talk to each other, do you need to stay? Damn. It'll only let me 'like' this one time!
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We do have intertwined lives.... plus as I brought almost everything in to the marriage, I have the most to lose.... like over $250,000..... besides as I originally said, it's just as easy to fall back on my tools for dealing with my sexless life....i went through the most hormonal time in my life without even a gf....it's a little too easy when u never really had any to begin with....

I am not all that pain would really gain me anything... my romantic history sucks and I am more likely to be laughed at than desired...

Once, during the longest dryspell, while traveling, i hung out at a swingers club, in hopes of getting some mojo back, and maybe something more.... in 6 hours, I could not get any interest from anyone there...very depressing. Justa lot of visuals of the rest of the world having fun.....

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Jun 3, 2016 14:32:06 GMT -5 @roch649 said:

Shoot. I think this means your luck is about to turn on the latter part of your life.

Tbh - going from zero to swingers club - they are very open and confident with their sexuality. You were probably putting off that you were not those things.

Swingers hang out on the scariest roller coaster in the park. You are on the kiddie ride. It's not a judgment from them to you - you should not take it as such at least, but they are there for fun and not to teach. You need a slower scene to start.

JMX Senior Members Posts: 1,281	Its the long term effects.... Jun 3, 2016 15:40:13 GMT -5 via Tapatalk greatcoastal likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by JMX on Jun 3, 2016 15:40:13 GMT -5 Jun 3, 2016 8:17:40 GMT -5 cagedadventurer said: JMX, were you able to discuss settlement papers with him? Any update there? Tomorrow - wish me luck.

3000more Full Member Posts: 218 Age Range: 46-50	Its the long term effects.... Jun 3, 2016 22:04:04 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by 3000more on Jun 3, 2016 22:04:04 GMT -5 Jun 3, 2016 15:40:13 GMT -5 JMX said: Jun 3, 2016 8:17:40 GMT -5 cagedadventurer said: JMX, were you able to discuss settlement papers with him? Any update there? Tomorrow - wish me luck. Good Luck

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