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Build your own "Talk" Aug 23, 2023 17:35:33 GMT -5 mirrororchid and jerri like this

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Post by greatcoastal on Aug 23, 2023 17:35:33 GMT -5

Aug 23, 2023 12:41:36 GMT -5 jerri said:

For me "The Talk" was ongoing because I had no intention of leaving and being the bad guy. If anyone was leaving it would be him. He could be the bad guy. I was after healing from the decades of being sexless.

That's great advice and I concur about "not being the bad guy".....however, if you're dealing with a manipulative controller, narcissist, histrionic, cluster B, etc.. It's not going to matter. Especially if there's children involved, the odds ,% of kids who end up seperated ( parental alienation) from dad is somewhere at 80% to 90% in USA and U.K. by the family court system.

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