Truth in the english-speaking world seems to be a rarity these days, which is why I’m trying to learn the lother languages like body and intoxication level. 🤣
I have made use of a woman's body language many times. If a man pays attention he can usually tell if he is touching on the right buttons and speaking the things that catch and hold a woman's interest.
Jerri ......it's not easy to ask a woman out. he has to look for signs that he should make a move ......
for me, this is not about asking a woman out but applies to many interactions. For instance if a woman has cat treats in her shopping basket I might say "if my cat knew where you lived, it might run away from my house." I worry that the woman will actually think that I want to know where she lives so I can do a drive-by and hope to see her.
Yesterday a woman had several packages of ice cream in her shopping cart and I said " Nice party fixings" and got one of those derogatory looks similar to "mind your own business dude." I have even been criticized for holding the door open by a very few women. Most say thank you.
Bottom line is it is difficult for me to determine what will happen sometimes so I mostly act as no one is interested in what I do or have to say "unless I can determine beforehand that they "might be interested or appreciate some interactions."
I will admit to trying to avoid negative reactions to a point of being overly cautious.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
mirrororchid: If something is troubling you and thoughts are keeping the sandman away, venting at 7cups.com may help? If you're just awake inconveniently and want cyber company, chatzy.com may have a group similarly unoccupied.
Mar 28, 2022 6:01:09 GMT -5
jim44444: Thank.you Admin for deleting the spammers
Mar 31, 2022 8:52:13 GMT -5
njsojourner: My advice to those Suffering: screw it! Literally. Everyone deserves a fulfilling sexual life. Get it however you can. Life is short. I have no illusions —when I get caught my wife will have to decide what’s most important to her. I am not stopping!
Mar 31, 2022 21:05:18 GMT -5
desertfather: I just felt lonely lately. Wanted to talk to someone.
Apr 5, 2022 8:29:18 GMT -5
mirrororchid: I mention a few online chat rooms a few posts up, desertfather. Meetup.com provides real live people to chat with. Given your ILIASM situation, a lot of folks locate a therapist. (helpful for touchy subjects you can't go over with friends for over a year.
Apr 6, 2022 4:50:03 GMT -5