Truth in the english-speaking world seems to be a rarity these days, which is why I’m trying to learn the lother languages like body and intoxication level. 🤣
I have made use of a woman's body language many times. If a man pays attention he can usually tell if he is touching on the right buttons and speaking the things that catch and hold a woman's interest.
Jerri ......it's not easy to ask a woman out. he has to look for signs that he should make a move ......
for me, this is not about asking a woman out but applies to many interactions. For instance if a woman has cat treats in her shopping basket I might say "if my cat knew where you lived, it might run away from my house." I worry that the woman will actually think that I want to know where she lives so I can do a drive-by and hope to see her.
Yesterday a woman had several packages of ice cream in her shopping cart and I said " Nice party fixings" and got one of those derogatory looks similar to "mind your own business dude." I have even been criticized for holding the door open by a very few women. Most say thank you.
Bottom line is it is difficult for me to determine what will happen sometimes so I mostly act as no one is interested in what I do or have to say "unless I can determine beforehand that they "might be interested or appreciate some interactions."
I will admit to trying to avoid negative reactions to a point of being overly cautious.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
worksforme2: Happy Birthday greatcoastal,.....
Oct 14, 2022 8:05:03 GMT -5
worksforme2: I'm reading about flash flooding in south east Australia. I think that might be near you Baz. Are you located on high ground?
Oct 14, 2022 10:16:46 GMT -5
greatcoastal: Thanks for the B.D. wishes! Dinner with a friend tonight and B.D. dance with the Ladies tomorrow!
Oct 14, 2022 16:38:40 GMT -5
petrushka: Hope you haven't had to resort to snorkles yet, Baza. I just saw a figure of 12m for some place. Yeesh. And according to the flood warning map you're in the red zone...
Oct 15, 2022 6:09:38 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday misssunnybunny.....
Oct 23, 2022 5:06:17 GMT -5
wewbwb: The best of birthday wishes to misssunnybunny , a special woman who deserves the best!
Oct 23, 2022 9:56:58 GMT -5
petrushka: Ditto, many happy returns!
Oct 24, 2022 1:27:01 GMT -5
jim44444: Was that a shootout from the long absent wewbwb?
Oct 24, 2022 17:38:53 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Thank you for the birthday wishes! It was a very happy birthday!
Oct 25, 2022 10:05:56 GMT -5
wewbwb: Yes jim44444 I only appear on misssunnybunny birthday. But that doesn't mean I don't watch what you hooligans are up to.
Oct 25, 2022 19:03:38 GMT -5
mirrororchid: What if we say your name three times?
Oct 26, 2022 19:15:10 GMT -5