Truth in the english-speaking world seems to be a rarity these days, which is why I’m trying to learn the lother languages like body and intoxication level. 🤣
I have made use of a woman's body language many times. If a man pays attention he can usually tell if he is touching on the right buttons and speaking the things that catch and hold a woman's interest.
Jerri ......it's not easy to ask a woman out. he has to look for signs that he should make a move ......
for me, this is not about asking a woman out but applies to many interactions. For instance if a woman has cat treats in her shopping basket I might say "if my cat knew where you lived, it might run away from my house." I worry that the woman will actually think that I want to know where she lives so I can do a drive-by and hope to see her.
Yesterday a woman had several packages of ice cream in her shopping cart and I said " Nice party fixings" and got one of those derogatory looks similar to "mind your own business dude." I have even been criticized for holding the door open by a very few women. Most say thank you.
Bottom line is it is difficult for me to determine what will happen sometimes so I mostly act as no one is interested in what I do or have to say "unless I can determine beforehand that they "might be interested or appreciate some interactions."
I will admit to trying to avoid negative reactions to a point of being overly cautious.
worksforme2: Happy Birthday deleted,...where ever you are
Sept 25, 2023 9:44:03 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Just found out. My wife's therapist was nudging her to divorce me four years ago before she reset with me. It seems like the key ingredient to a reverse in a sexless marriage is a refuser that earnestly knows that celibacy in marriage is abnormal.
Sept 27, 2023 19:49:47 GMT -5