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Post by warmways on Jun 19, 2020 15:54:32 GMT -5
Hi everybody
I know it’s been a minute since I posted anything. I went through a long healing process after divorce on 02/20/2019. I’m finally taking the plunge into dating again as I’m able to shake off the numbness and pain of almost two decades of sexlessness. I’m so excited. Have a date this week ahead and somebody I’m really intrigued by who keeps texting me.
Wish me luck! Time is definitely on my side as I feel clearer, lighter, and happier every day. 🌈🦋💕
And yes, dating in the time of Covid does seem so surreal.
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Post by warmways on Jun 25, 2020 18:54:01 GMT -5
Good luck warmways Keep us posted. Are you glad you waited? I'm fresh out of hell and likely going to lay low a while before I get back out there. In my case it wasn’t an option. I was so scarred I had to wait and heal. I had to be alone I will be two years out of my SM in February the date wasn’t good but I’ll keep going back I think the sexless marriage made me more resilient in a way. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 26, 2020 8:41:03 GMT -5
Good luck warmways Keep us posted. Are you glad you waited? I'm fresh out of hell and likely going to lay low a while before I get back out there. In my case it wasn’t an option. I was so scarred I had to wait and heal. I had to be alone I will be two years out of my SM in February the date wasn’t good but I’ll keep going back I think the sexless marriage made me more resilient in a way. Dating ,has a way of building up your resilience too! As you continue in your journey of what your boundaries are, spotting red flags, taking chances, and spotting green flags too!! Here's to new beginnings! |
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Post by mirrororchid on Jun 26, 2020 17:21:05 GMT -5
Good luck warmways Keep us posted. Are you glad you waited? I'm fresh out of hell and likely going to lay low a while before I get back out there. In my case it wasn’t an option. I was so scarred I had to wait and heal. I had to be alone I will be two years out of my SM in February the date wasn’t good but I’ll keep going back I think the sexless marriage made me more resilient in a way. Yo! How'd your intriguing date disappoint? Some of us are takin' notes for later! |
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Post by warmways on Jun 26, 2020 20:07:02 GMT -5
He didn’t seem upbeat or inspired. Just really quiet and lackluster. I carried the conversation a lot. I didn’t feel good around him. I go a lot with how I feel around people and he just seemed sad and low energy. But he was a nice person, just not for me and I’m glad I did it!
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Post by warmways on Jun 26, 2020 20:08:10 GMT -5
In my case it wasn’t an option. I was so scarred I had to wait and heal. I had to be alone I will be two years out of my SM in February the date wasn’t good but I’ll keep going back I think the sexless marriage made me more resilient in a way. Dating ,has a way of building up your resilience too! As you continue in your journey of what your boundaries are, spotting red flags, taking chances, and spotting green flags too!! Here's to new beginnings! Thank you greatcoastal. It was a learning experience. He wasn’t for me but it’s good to get out and meet people! |
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Post by mirrororchid on Jun 29, 2020 5:49:02 GMT -5
He didn’t seem upbeat or inspired. Just really quiet and lackluster. I carried the conversation a lot. I didn’t feel good around him. I go a lot with how I feel around people and he just seemed sad and low energy. But he was a nice person, just not for me and I’m glad I did it! Thanks for the feedback. Totally get that. It might be a good personal ad line: "Come well rested and ready to keep up your end of the conversation." |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 5, 2021 20:10:48 GMT -5
This post hasn't had much traffic so I thought I would get it going again..  |
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