How to know when it's really over?

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greatcoastal
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How to know when it's really over? Mar 15, 2020 20:21:29 GMT -5 h, takestwototango, and 2 more like this

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Post by greatcoastal on Mar 15, 2020 20:21:29 GMT -5

medium.com/@angrytherapist/how-do-you-know-when-its-really-over-c20f4e901c3c

"You have to own your own shit, and rebuild yourself."

Hmm, now where have I read that before?

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How to know when it's really over? Mar 15, 2020 21:46:20 GMT -5 greatcoastal and workingonit like this

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Post by baza on Mar 15, 2020 21:46:20 GMT -5

Like the article suggests, if you have your own shit sorted out, you are not all that likely to associate - or continue to associate - with people who don't have their own shit sorted out.

It is a natural consequence of sorting out your own shit that relationships change.
Some relationships will be enhanced by the process of you sorting out your own shit.
Some relationships will be redefined by the process.
Some relationships will not survive the process.

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