Hi all, I've been lurking reading a lot of posts and decided to join in. My name is Brian I am 38 years old been married for 13 years and have lived in a relatively sexless marriage for 12 of them. After reading a lot of posts and going to counseling I cannot believe how much in common my sm is with everyone else on these boards. thank you for letting me join in on the discussions!
Post by worksforme2 on Feb 2, 2020 11:06:27 GMT -5
Welcome brianbk,...Sorry you find yourself here, but there is a wealth of information and experience to draw on as you navigate your way through your SM. Hopefully you will find somethings of value to you and your marriage in your reading and time spent here.
Post by workingonit on Feb 2, 2020 21:52:19 GMT -5
Welcome brianbk ! It is a crappy club we are all forced into but there is solace in community. Feel free to start a thread elsewhere and spill your full story. There is good feedback to be found here as well.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
mirrororchid: If something is troubling you and thoughts are keeping the sandman away, venting at 7cups.com may help? If you're just awake inconveniently and want cyber company, chatzy.com may have a group similarly unoccupied.
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jim44444: Thank.you Admin for deleting the spammers
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njsojourner: My advice to those Suffering: screw it! Literally. Everyone deserves a fulfilling sexual life. Get it however you can. Life is short. I have no illusions —when I get caught my wife will have to decide what’s most important to her. I am not stopping!
Mar 31, 2022 21:05:18 GMT -5
desertfather: I just felt lonely lately. Wanted to talk to someone.
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mirrororchid: I mention a few online chat rooms a few posts up, desertfather. Meetup.com provides real live people to chat with. Given your ILIASM situation, a lot of folks locate a therapist. (helpful for touchy subjects you can't go over with friends for over a year.
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