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Post by ScottDinTN on Jan 30, 2020 1:16:55 GMT -5
One post here brought to mind another reason I like working on projects developing or upgrading my space. Most of my house has decorations or layouts decided by her. If I try to change something, it's a big deal. I guess it's why a lot of guys have man caves. A place to decorate not for company, but ourselves.
There was a woman I used to chat with that had a near sexless husband but he was very clingy and always in her face. Had to be very close and do everything together. I encouraged her to take over one of the bedrooms and make sure he understood it was her private space.
Everyone needs space to call and make there own.
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Post by h on Jan 30, 2020 9:02:21 GMT -5
One post here brought to mind another reason I like working on projects developing or upgrading my space. Most of my house has decorations or layouts decided by her. If I try to change something, it's a big deal. I guess it's why a lot of guys have man caves. A place to decorate not for company, but ourselves. There was a woman I used to chat with that had a near sexless husband but he was very clingy and always in her face. Had to be very close and do everything together. I encouraged her to take over one of the bedrooms and make sure he understood it was her private space. Everyone needs space to call and make there own. That's exactly how it is in our house. Every single room in our house is dominated by my W's decorative tastes. The only pieces of mine are allowed specifically because they fit with her overall theme for the space. I've given up on the rest of the house so a place all my own sounds nice. Although, I doubt I'll be able to spend much time in it. My W is also very clingy and wants to spend every waking moment with me (just not in the bedroom obviously). She seriously gets whiney and pouty like a child if she has to spend any length of time alone. At least I can mentally go to my private space, if not physically.
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Post by ScottDinTN on Jan 30, 2020 10:14:55 GMT -5
Sounds a lot like the woman I knew. Her husband wanted to be with her all the time. Just not in the sexually.
You could claim a spare bedroom and decorate it with a theme she can't stand to look at. So she won't follow you in. Lol
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