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Post by greatcoastal on May 31, 2016 9:43:34 GMT -5
What is it like to bring up the relationship of the parents? As we agree that tells a lot about a person. Parents pass away, get divorced, change over time. Harder to varrify. True. Easier done in younger years. Unless you can see it for yourself first-hand, it's hard to get an unbiased story. But there are some telling facts that can still be drawn out. Looking back, personally, there were a shitload of red flags. Cold. Separate bedrooms for over a decade. Bitter divorce. One dysfunctional re-marriage, the other none. Zero hugging in the family. We're much healthier, but it's like we're replaying their history. DC Ditto here! But my own parents had problems too. My mom was bipolar, and dad avoided her. I grew up to do the same, in many respects. ( happy wife happy life syndrome). what about yourself? When the day comes and you are meeting someone else, imagine rehashing the past and coming out sounding like the perfect person for the next partner. Just things to discuss. |
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Post by Isabellas39 on Jun 14, 2016 19:03:44 GMT -5
Before marriage, divorced meant two things to me ...someone with baggage, and experience . My husband was married before, and I thought he would have learned a few things, however, I was wrong... I remember in the beginning of our relationship when I saw a prescription for viagra and wondered why he needed that, his response was his ex wife told him he had a problem in that department ..Red flag? Maybe ...
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 14, 2016 19:19:49 GMT -5
Before marriage, divorced meant two things to me ...someone with baggage, and experience . My husband was married before, and I thought he would have learned a few things, however, I was wrong... I remember in the beginning of our relationship when I saw a prescription for viagra and wondered why he needed that, his response was his ex wife told him he had a problem in that department ..Red flag? Maybe ... Red flags on a "road closed bridge out ahead" sign! Did you ever hear the other side of the coin from the ex wife? family and relatives may have a few answers for you. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 14, 2016 19:52:01 GMT -5
I remember when being divorced meant that the man got caught having an affair. Now that narrow view is deranged,almost laughable!
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