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Post by tinymouse on May 27, 2016 21:50:15 GMT -5
So some of you suggested talking things ok. When I remember my SM, I often remember little things that happened.
One of the things I remember is I was visiting friends for a few days. This was right after I decided that I would divorce my ex. I was looking for a job before I could leave. I was taking a shower and was looking on the shelf for body wash or something. And I found a small bottle of silicone lube. And I just started bawling. Here is a couple that is so into each other and having sex and passion that they actually keep lube in a shower and my husband, my still newly wedded of under 6 months husband couldn't be bothered to touch me.
So... what about you guys? Or any deep thoughts?
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Post by Deleted on May 27, 2016 22:28:28 GMT -5
So some of you suggested talking things ok. When I remember my SM, I often remember little things that happened. One of the things I remember is I was visiting friends for a few days. This was right after I decided that I would divorce my ex. I was looking for a job before I could leave. I was taking a shower and was looking on the shelf for body wash or something. And I found a small bottle of silicone lube. And I just started bawling. Here is a couple that is so into each other and having sex and passion that they actually keep lube in a shower and my husband, my still newly wedded of under 6 months husband couldn't be bothered to touch me. So... what about you guys? Or any deep thoughts? What you saw that day was how normal couples live. That's why it was painful. Why can't I have what most couples have without even thinking about it? |
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Post by Deleted on May 27, 2016 22:38:53 GMT -5
You've read about the rubber kitty I bought during my SM, What I didn't tell you was that after the first time I fucked it, I took it and held it close to me.
Spooning with a thermal plastic elastomer vagina while your wife sleeps in another bed. That, my friends, is what sexless marriage does to your head.
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Post by lwoetin on May 28, 2016 1:28:15 GMT -5
small things? well, my wife has small hands. which she used to give a handjob. with her eyes closed and face turned away. because she was disgusted. and i saw this and i turned my face away. closed my eyes so tears wouldn't flow. my smaller head was stupid and still enjoyed it. my bigger head felt humiliated and said i will never let her touch me like this again.
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Post by Deleted on May 28, 2016 6:16:24 GMT -5
small things? well, my wife has small hands. which she used to give a handjob. with her eyes closed and face turned away. because she was disgusted. and i saw this and i turned my face away. closed my eyes so tears wouldn't flow. my smaller head was stupid and still enjoyed it. my bigger head felt humiliated and said i will never let her touch me like this again. Ok I just posted about bad sex and gave some examples and this one sure should be on the list. Sorry man, that's just awful. |
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Post by snowman12345 on May 28, 2016 20:00:37 GMT -5
small things? well, my wife has small hands. which she used to give a handjob. with her eyes closed and face turned away. because she was disgusted. and i saw this and i turned my face away. closed my eyes so tears wouldn't flow. my smaller head was stupid and still enjoyed it. my bigger head felt humiliated and said i will never let her touch me like this again. Ok I just posted about bad sex and gave some examples and this one sure should be on the list. Sorry man, that's just awful. I think any sex with guilt attached to it would fit into that category. |
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Post by greatcoastal on May 28, 2016 20:17:48 GMT -5
My wife told me months after marriage that "she did not like to French kiss""That it felt weird." Our kisses grew shorter and shorter. They have been pecks for years.
Lately I turned my head to receive a goodby peck on the cheek and not the lips. All it took was twice. She is more than happy to eliminate the whole thing.
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Post by DryCreek on May 28, 2016 23:28:26 GMT -5
tinymouse... so many small things. Death by a thousand cuts. In the style of your reflection, I seem to have a knack for getting hotel rooms next door to passionate couples who enjoy very audible sex. I'm happy for them but sad for myself.
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Post by thefullmoon on May 29, 2016 9:05:09 GMT -5
small things? well, my wife has small hands. which she used to give a handjob. with her eyes closed and face turned away. because she was disgusted. and i saw this and i turned my face away. closed my eyes so tears wouldn't flow. my smaller head was stupid and still enjoyed it. my bigger head felt humiliated and said i will never let her touch me like this again. Oh...dear...it brought tears into my eyes... you would get more affection from the cheapest prostitute.... |
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Post by greatcoastal on May 29, 2016 9:30:03 GMT -5
So some of you suggested talking things ok. When I remember my SM, I often remember little things that happened. One of the things I remember is I was visiting friends for a few days. This was right after I decided that I would divorce my ex. I was looking for a job before I could leave. I was taking a shower and was looking on the shelf for body wash or something. And I found a small bottle of silicone lube. And I just started bawling. Here is a couple that is so into each other and having sex and passion that they actually keep lube in a shower and my husband, my still newly wedded of under 6 months husband couldn't be bothered to touch me. So... what about you guys? Or any deep thoughts? Tears are good! they let you know, YOU ARE REAL! |
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Post by angryspartan on May 29, 2016 11:12:57 GMT -5
My wedding night, she had to open all the envelopes before getting down with me. And of course, nothing in the morning because she was starving. I kind of figured right there this was going to be an issue.
Then, the week after our honeymoon, we were talking with a friend, and for some reason sex came up. During the conversation, she says "I could go without sex for the rest of my life." How humiliating, those words still stuck with me, despite her apologies.
Here I was with a knockout for a wife and couldn't touch her unless for rare occurance. Good times...
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Post by itsjustus on May 29, 2016 11:40:21 GMT -5
tinymouse For me it's seeing couples who are so obviously into each other. The little things. Catching them glancing at each other with little knowing smiles. Seeing them talking to other people, but obviously in each other's intimate space then a light touch from one to the other. Just those little things that couples in a loving, intimate marriage do that let's you know they have a real comfort with each others bodies. One of the last events in my dysfunctional marriage that convinced me to pull the plug was shopping at a mall with my ex for family Christmas presents during the time of our attempt to repair our marriage. We stopped for lunch in a nice place and sat close to a young couple with two rambunctious young boys. The couple sat close to each other, talking to each other and the boy's as a happy family. But it was when one of the boy's did something a little over the top and the father laughingly said "I can't wait to get you two home and get you tucked away in bed!" From my vantage point, I could see the young woman reach and give his leg a little suggestive squeeze, causing him to look at her.. She wiggled her eyebrows and smiled. That little event, hardly 30 seconds of my life, helped convince me that I had never had that kind of relationship with my ex, and I never would. It just wasn't possible. That was the beginning of the end for me.
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