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Post by greatcoastal on Aug 24, 2019 21:35:17 GMT -5
www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/reasons-many-married-women-cheat-220719320.htmlMany interesting things about this article. Several of them can also be used to explain why men cheat on their wives. (I so dislike that term - cheat...but I digress) One point I found 'interesting' is the 'research or statistic' that shows that a very high amount do actually get away with cheating, and don't ever get caught or discovered. Changing times?
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Post by baza on Aug 24, 2019 22:08:58 GMT -5
I was reading somewhere (can't recall the source) where it claimed a bit over 20% of people who cheat get caught.
So by default, close to 80% don't get caught .... well, not so far at least !!
Of further interest was that of those who DO get caught, the majority trip up via their mobile phone being examined by their spouse.
Other pitfalls were hacked emails, financial records, being seen by someone who knows you.
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Post by Handy on Aug 24, 2019 22:10:54 GMT -5
I read an affair forum for a while and the women got found out less often than the men.
Reading between the lines, wives are more suspicious than husbands, most of the time, women cheaters had better cover stories and GF to back up the affair cover up, and female cheaters didn't spend as much time figuring out where to meet. Most of the male partners paid for a majority of the affair time expenses.
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Post by flashjohn on Aug 26, 2019 14:30:14 GMT -5
If a spouse is a refuser, it is easy to outsource and not get caught. Your refuser is usually not tuned into your emotional state anyway, so the signs that would be obvious to a normal spouse would be missed by a refuser. Then just have a way to pay expenses that are not traceable, and an untraceable way to communicate, and it can happen.
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Post by worksforme2 on Aug 26, 2019 17:22:41 GMT -5
I would think that most wives are highly tuned into the marriage finances. Many husbands turn most of the shopping and bill paying to their wives. It would seem that if one is going to outsource then close attention must be paid to how it's financed. And little things could trip give you away.
I confirmed my 1st X's infidelity following our separation when cleaning out old phone and credit card statements. We saved everything because we usually itemized our taxes. As I disposed of really old stuff I looked through the new statements. There I found phone calls to out of state motels and charges on the credit card for restaurants and gas stations in those areas. And my mom and sister confirmed they had the children on those weekends.
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Post by twotimesone on Sept 9, 2019 15:59:27 GMT -5
I wrote up a thread some time ago about "Women's Infidelity, living in limbo." and a few women here didn't have exactly have a positive response about what I said. I think alot of women get away with it because many men trust their wives but not the other way around. Personally, for me, I don't fully trust my W.
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