Alpha beta dance Jun 4, 2019 13:11:04 GMT -5 via mobile
Post by larry101 on Jun 4, 2019 13:11:04 GMT -5
OK. So everyone here is in a similar boat. Both men and women. I'm not sure how well this suggestion applies to women, but assuming the relationship dynamics at play are similar, I don't see any reason applying some suggestions wouldnt help.
**grab a copy of "married man sex life" by athol kay.**
i cant recommend this enough. i see many posts on this forum that i could have written myself 10 yrs ago. now im not saying this book is gonna cure all your marital issues. if it did, i wouldnt be a member of this forum. but im 100% sure i would have had far less meaningful sex if not for this book. youll first learn why her desire has vanished. and then take steps to restart her engines. the beauty is, she doesnt need to participate. matter of fact, sharing the book with her is generally ill advised.
we all know mother nature didnt engineer marriage. she engineered a man to spread his seed far and wide. she engineered a woman to consume as many seeds as possible. natural selection at its lowest level. more sperm = better litter pick. problem is, once shes impregnated, her bodies desires change. after all, she cant effectively care for her young if she remains busy fucking all the hot alpha males. her chemistry now wants a beta male. hes the provider, the security, etc.
ok, ill let athol take it from there and leave you with this...
a week after i started making changes to myself and my approach to my wife, she came to me with a puzzled look and said, "whats different about you?" i shrugged my shoulders and never said a word. her BODY language indicated she liked the changes. Her WORDS indicated she didn't like the changes. i continued to stay on course. about 2-3 weeks later, i noticed my wife had been dropping subtle hints for days. she isnt an initiator so it was up to me to act. when i did, she literally couldnt tare my clothes off fast enough. now there are some gotchas. she will tell you she wants the caring, sensitive you. yeah, the one she wont fuck. its not her fault. its biology remember? this is where learning to balance both alpha/beta is a must!
dont assume this book suggest turning into a high alpha ahole, its all about alpha/beta balance and the appropriate times for each. nuff said, give it a shot