Stillll looking...
Jun 3, 2019 13:28:45 GMT -5
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Post by mypaintbrushes on Jun 3, 2019 13:28:45 GMT -5
Quick update on me: I’ve received, just a gross estimate, 2,500+ messages, likes, smileys, etc on dating apps.
Out of all those people, I think I’ve been out with about 30.
Five of those people were worth seeing again.
All five either went incommunicado or we are just occasional pen pals. I’ve gotten two people to make out with me while on a date; no one wants more than that.
So I’m wiping the slate clean more or less and starting over.
Saturday night my girlfriend and I went out drinking and met a guy in a bar who was from Romania. He asked if I knew where that was; I said “Oh yeah! I watch The Santa Clarita Diet and Goran Visnjic is on it!” Not sure how I remembered all that as drunk as I was, but the guy seemed interested in taking me back to his place and fucking my brains out. I was all set to to it, when...
My friend had a chat with him while I was in line for the restroom. Our European friend is married, she’s traveling right now, and they’re trying for a baby.
She yanked me out of there. We went back to her place and, when “Benny” texted me wanting to know what was going on, she replied as me:
“Hey Benny,
It’s H.
So, when you tell a woman you’re married, that you and she live together and are trying to have children with your wife, but she’s traveling out of the country at the moments so...
And that you and you and your friends sleep around on your wives frequently...
Well, I’m gonna tell my friend, you know, the one you were trying to screw around with.
I don’t give a rats ass about your cheating ass, but I do care about her and her feelings. So kindly fuck off...
And stop fucking around on your wife, you’ve got no idea how lucky you are to have someone who cares and is there for you, stop cheating on her.
If you’re not happy grow some balls and be decent about it. But be single before you date.”
He responded (among other things) that nice people are usually weak and he was just trying to get some. 😞
Last night I went out with an Italian guy who is a friend of a friend. He talked my ear off, seemed pretty straightforward, told me he never wants to marry again but he’d love to keep seeing me. I got a kiss on the cheek from him and some excited texts afterward.
I’m wondering if American guys just aren’t being honest with me. I said to my friend, “Why are guys such pussies??” I attract standoffish or don’t have their lives together.
In the interim while I’m looking for someone who wants what I want, I have a couple of BDSM play partners I go see every 2-3 weeks. They are a committed couple. We text nearly every day. I go to their place and we drink wine, talk and then play. It’s the closest thing I’ve had to intimacy in many years.
Also went through mediation with my STBX last week. That’s a whole other post...
Out of all those people, I think I’ve been out with about 30.
Five of those people were worth seeing again.
All five either went incommunicado or we are just occasional pen pals. I’ve gotten two people to make out with me while on a date; no one wants more than that.
So I’m wiping the slate clean more or less and starting over.
Saturday night my girlfriend and I went out drinking and met a guy in a bar who was from Romania. He asked if I knew where that was; I said “Oh yeah! I watch The Santa Clarita Diet and Goran Visnjic is on it!” Not sure how I remembered all that as drunk as I was, but the guy seemed interested in taking me back to his place and fucking my brains out. I was all set to to it, when...
My friend had a chat with him while I was in line for the restroom. Our European friend is married, she’s traveling right now, and they’re trying for a baby.
She yanked me out of there. We went back to her place and, when “Benny” texted me wanting to know what was going on, she replied as me:
“Hey Benny,
It’s H.
So, when you tell a woman you’re married, that you and she live together and are trying to have children with your wife, but she’s traveling out of the country at the moments so...
And that you and you and your friends sleep around on your wives frequently...
Well, I’m gonna tell my friend, you know, the one you were trying to screw around with.
I don’t give a rats ass about your cheating ass, but I do care about her and her feelings. So kindly fuck off...
And stop fucking around on your wife, you’ve got no idea how lucky you are to have someone who cares and is there for you, stop cheating on her.
If you’re not happy grow some balls and be decent about it. But be single before you date.”
He responded (among other things) that nice people are usually weak and he was just trying to get some. 😞
Last night I went out with an Italian guy who is a friend of a friend. He talked my ear off, seemed pretty straightforward, told me he never wants to marry again but he’d love to keep seeing me. I got a kiss on the cheek from him and some excited texts afterward.
I’m wondering if American guys just aren’t being honest with me. I said to my friend, “Why are guys such pussies??” I attract standoffish or don’t have their lives together.
In the interim while I’m looking for someone who wants what I want, I have a couple of BDSM play partners I go see every 2-3 weeks. They are a committed couple. We text nearly every day. I go to their place and we drink wine, talk and then play. It’s the closest thing I’ve had to intimacy in many years.
Also went through mediation with my STBX last week. That’s a whole other post...
