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Post by nyctos on May 21, 2019 4:55:28 GMT -5
I seriously do not understand guys who try to avoid muffin munching -- it's probably one of my favorite activities. The only issue I've ever had with bush is sometimes hair sometimes starts poking you in the eye, though that can be easily prevented by guarding with a hand (which also press your hand in a petty easy location to help with the stimulation).
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Post by ironhamster on May 21, 2019 17:57:07 GMT -5
Since my first oral experience, I think I have always been at least as eager to give as my girl has to receive. Hair was all I ever knew until a couple years ago, and is not an issue imo. Pussy hair does make a funny sound just before it hits the floor, though, kinda like "pft." Pussy smells like sex. It is erotic, and I know this is going to gross some people out, but I have never gone down on one I did not enjoy. Redwings are new to me, and I am totally fine with the experience just as long as my girl is. The taste does get a bit metalic, but that is not bad, just different. The important thing is her enjoyment. If she is self-conscious, then it is not going to work for her, so it is not going to work for us.
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Post by northstarmom on May 21, 2019 18:14:05 GMT -5
"Pussy smells like sex. It is erotic, "
I feel the same way about male pubic hair. It has a delicious smell that super turns me on.
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Post by saarinista on May 21, 2019 19:22:34 GMT -5
Regarding your needs, I am not sure what the gap is but not surprised there is one. If he nuts too quickly, Viagra and Cialis are also effective for reducing premature ejaculation. I know some kinky tricks also that make it hard for a man to finish early. This is tmi back at you. As for the 70's bush and menstral blood, it's not an issue to some guys as long as it's not a discomfort to you. I am sure that makes me a pervert to some people, but, yes, I am a pervert so we'll just leave it at that. Jeeze! Is there ANYTHING about sex you don't know? 😁 😁 😁
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Post by saarinista on May 21, 2019 19:30:07 GMT -5
"Pussy smells like sex. It is erotic, " I feel the same way about male pubic hair. It has a delicious smell that super turns me on. True. Though it's a BIT unpleasant when a public hair gets shoved back into one's tonsils during oral sex and gets stuck there. Ladies, you know what I mean! 😏🤪😝. I just vaguely remember when that used to be a problem I had to deal with. What I wouldn't give to have THAT ticklish problem again... 🙄
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Post by ironhamster on May 21, 2019 20:29:30 GMT -5
Regarding your needs, I am not sure what the gap is but not surprised there is one. If he nuts too quickly, Viagra and Cialis are also effective for reducing premature ejaculation. I know some kinky tricks also that make it hard for a man to finish early. This is tmi back at you. As for the 70's bush and menstral blood, it's not an issue to some guys as long as it's not a discomfort to you. I am sure that makes me a pervert to some people, but, yes, I am a pervert so we'll just leave it at that. Jeeze! Is there ANYTHING about sex you don't know? 😁 😁 😁 I have spent most of my life sex starved and ignorant. I knew I wanted to know more so I went to the experts. Real, highly educated experts. Not doctors. If all I wanted to know about was penises and vaginas I'd have gone to urologists and OBGYNs. I went to the kink community to learn not just about pussies and cocks and how to keep them happy but so much more. Oh, there is a lot I don't know yet, but I still have a few good years left.
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Post by paddlingalone on May 25, 2019 15:34:29 GMT -5
My H actually told me he doesn't like bj's. Doesn't want 'em even though I'd be happy to give. He's never given me oral sex in our entire relationship. Missionary vanilla sex only, and that's when we were still having sex. Such a huge disappointment for me, since I'm adventurous/kinky.
Never knew a guy to be like that before. It's so sad and frustrating when I recollect that with previous boyfriends the sex was great but there wasn't enough of an interpersonal connection to sustain the relationship. Now I find the great personal connection, but there's no sexuality.
Sometimes I have a depressed thought that there was never any legitimate match out there for me. And I don't know why, because I don't think there's anything wrong with me.😞
OP glad to hear your H's t shots are working. I think my H and I are going to have a talk about the hormones within the next few months. Though I know that while it may increase drive, it won't increase sexual creativity, if that makes any sense. More missionary vanilla, heh heh.
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Post by JMX on May 25, 2019 20:43:48 GMT -5
It's good that you drew the line. Now he knows if he wants BJ's then he needs to munch the muffin. Just because it's HL people want sex, it doesn't mean the LL partner gets to take advantage of our desires.[/ Edited: agree
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Post by JMX on May 25, 2019 20:48:59 GMT -5
Good for you sticking up for yourself and drawing your line in the sand. Nothing wrong with him getting rejected and a taste of his own medicine too. I wouldn’t give him a bj until he gives you orgasmic oral what’s fair is fair! Hugs
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Post by JMX on May 25, 2019 20:54:44 GMT -5
I wish I could share my old EP story / it was actually kind of funny.
When you’re not used to getting it, and you try mightily to keep it in your pants, you stop grooming. It keeps you honest,
A surprise like that after years, sucks. And you fret about it for months when you don’t get it again, and don’t get sex again either.
Horrifying enough to stop it altogether, but pleasing and foreign enough to keep it up. What would you do? Back in 2009, before finding EP?
I got it because he thought a guy friend of mine was flirting with me. He was marking his territory
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Post by hopingforachange on May 26, 2019 21:02:47 GMT -5
I wish I could share my old EP story / it was actually kind of funny. When you’re not used to getting it, and you try mightily to keep it in your pants, you stop grooming. It keeps you honest, A surprise like that after years, sucks. And you fret about it for months when you don’t get it again, and don’t get sex again either. Horrifying enough to stop it altogether, but pleasing and foreign enough to keep it up. What would you do? Back in 2009, before finding EP? I got it because he thought a guy friend of mine was flirting with me. He was marking his territory Sounds like you could have used that to your advantage and flirted your way to more. Lol 🤣
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Post by tinymouse on May 31, 2019 10:02:34 GMT -5
Funny enough about grooming... I groomed on and off after I stopped getting any. I would let it go, then get annoyed at feeling like a chewbacca and would shave. When I got a job where I had to wear suit, I shaved my legs every day since I'd be wearing skirts. I did catch him telling some mutual friends after I filed for divorce that this was all sign that I was cheating. I had to laugh because it wasnt like he'd see me naked enough to tell if I shaved or not.
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Post by ironhamster on May 31, 2019 10:09:23 GMT -5
Snicker. My ex is finally dating somebody. The thought of grooming that has never crossed her mind. My morbid curiosity of what their first time naked together will never be satisfied, but I hope he likes 70's bush just as much as he likes shitty sex and excuses.
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Post by h on May 31, 2019 10:17:26 GMT -5
Snicker. My ex is finally dating somebody. The thought of grooming that has never crossed her mind. My morbid curiosity of what their first time naked together will never be satisfied, but I hope he likes 70's bush just as much as he likes shitty sex and excuses.
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Post by solodriver on Jun 1, 2019 22:37:13 GMT -5
Snicker. My ex is finally dating somebody. The thought of grooming that has never crossed her mind. My morbid curiosity of what their first time naked together will never be satisfied, but I hope he likes 70's bush just as much as he likes shitty sex and excuses. ROTFL
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