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Sept 23, 2019 14:47:40 GMT -5 lessingham said:

All went well and all is well.

Thank you for updating us on the surgery. I know it’s been a long time coming and you’ve been anxious. I’m glad everything went well!

workingonit Senior Member Posts: 1,225	Dark wings Sept 24, 2019 21:13:51 GMT -5 saarinista likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by workingonit on Sept 24, 2019 21:13:51 GMT -5 Sept 23, 2019 14:47:40 GMT -5 lessingham said: All went well and all is well. Wonderful! May it continue so!

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Post by lessingham on Sept 25, 2019 10:45:24 GMT -5

I am planning vacations, but it may be a month or three before she can travel. An oddity, I have slept better this week than for months. Whether this is due to relief or the fact I am alone in the bed waits to be seen. Thank you all for your good wishes.

saarinista Senior Member Posts: 1,609 Age Range: 56-60	Dark wings Sept 25, 2019 15:35:39 GMT -5 via Tapatalk jim44444 and worksforme2 like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by saarinista on Sept 25, 2019 15:35:39 GMT -5 I just spent some time away from my husband (three weeks) and slept better.
	Please forgive any typos or poor sentence structure. As I often say, you can have it perfect or you can have it now. Here, I choose now.

Handy Senior Member Posts: 3,094	Dark wings Sept 25, 2019 17:41:25 GMT -5 saarinista likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Handy on Sept 25, 2019 17:41:25 GMT -5 saarinista, I detect some extra curricular activity might have happened in your recent past.

lessingham Senior Member Married Posts: 994	Dark wings Sept 30, 2019 3:28:43 GMT -5 via mobile DryCreek, elynne, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lessingham on Sept 30, 2019 3:28:43 GMT -5 I get shared showers! She needs help showering so yours truely gets a bucket list wish. Thirty years too late but still, a shared shower.

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Dark wings Sept 30, 2019 10:29:46 GMT -5

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Post by Handy on Sept 30, 2019 10:29:46 GMT -5

Try washing her feet in the shower (if there is room to do that), it might get her loosen up a little to allow more to happen. This also might work with you washing her hair.

I am good at both (women only). Amy takers? OK, OK I know or suspect no one even lives close to me so it "ain't gonna happen."

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Hardy, do you think even a sex loving woman who just had surgery and needed help in the shower would be lured into sexually by washing her feet or hair? Sounds like she’s doing good to stand in the shower.

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Dark wings Sept 30, 2019 12:13:27 GMT -5

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Post by Handy on Sept 30, 2019 12:13:27 GMT -5

My bad. I didn't remember Ms Lessingham recently had surgery. I was thinking she got over what ever it was that she was seeking medical care.

Lots of people and lots of situations to try to keep track of. I screwed up. I went back and read some earlier posts. Sept 23 surgery, yes that is recent, too recent to expect her to not be thinking mostly about her recovery.

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lessingham Senior Member Married Posts: 994	Dark wings Oct 1, 2019 9:17:07 GMT -5 via mobile Handy likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lessingham on Oct 1, 2019 9:17:07 GMT -5 She is doing great so far. The shower thing was always a thing with me, so even a careful wash with a operation recovering wonan is a delight. No wandering hands, honest gov!

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